Infatuation is the state of being carried away by an unreasoned passion, usually towards another person for which one has developed strong romantic feelings. It’s when you you find someone absolutely perfect. Mostly is a physical attraction and popularity, and when it happens, if it happens, is only for a short period of time. It’s an emotion where you fall into another person put you don’t get a chance to actually grow with them. It’s a feeling or uncertainty instead of security. When you like some that most likely will never give you the time of day. Temporary instead of lasting. You’re in love with the thought of love instead of being it with that person. It’s more like an “I want you” not an “I love you.” It’s weakened over time. It gives you the inability to trust, and it’s all based on sex. There’s no real friendship to begin with. And you only want what’s best for you. Most of the time when you’re infatuated with a person you just see them from afar. But if you were to actually go up to them and talk to them you can see just how much you guys don’t have in common. Fantasy is nothing but a figment of your imagination. But love is everything opposite of that. It’s a feeling of so many emotions that you feel all at once, it’s just so unexplainable. It’s when you realize that person isn’t perfect and that it doesn’t matter either. Love encompasses a variety of different emotional and mental states, typically strongly and positively experienced, ranging from the deepest interpersonal affection to the simplest pleasure. There’s a lot of things that I could say about love but the one I know best is true love. True love doesn't happen right away; it's an ever-growing process. It develops after you've gone through many ups and downs, when you've suffered together, cried together, laughed together. You're not looking for perfection in your partner. Perfection is all about the ego. With soulmate love, you know that true love is what happens when disappointment sets in - and you're willing to deal maturely with these disappointments. I love the movie ‘The Notebook’ and my favorite line from it is, "The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That’s what I hope to give you forever." When I look you in the eyes, I see the rest of my life in them. You are so beautiful and sweet and kind. Everyday I see you, I’m like “Wow that’s mine right there.” Just I love you so much. I’m happy that you let me break down your walls and you let me into your world. I want what’s best for you everyday. And I want you in my life forever. Like one day I want to wake up, roll over on my side, and kiss the love of my life good morning. I’m in love with you. Now I know that’s most likely hard to take in but it’s true. You’re the love of my life and everything I need. You’re my true love. People say that your true love is going to be the perfect romance. Or that it’s going to take forever to find them. I think I found them in you. Well perfect is a very strong word to use in certain situations. True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. Not by physical appearance. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding. I love you for not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made for yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out, that nobody has ever really been able to do before. Me and you we’re like Yin and Yang. With me being Yin because of my darkness that I have at times and you being Yang because of your shining personality. We are both opposites but we can't exist without each other. I want us to last as long as Yin and Yang did. Even though they’re not real people. Let’s be like Eros and Aphrodite. Like Cupid and Venus. I want us to be like Bonnie and Clyde. Sex like Jody and Yvette. Argue like Ike and Tina. Make up like Martin and Gina. N stick together like Luscious and Cookie. I never want for us to break up. I will do everything for you to not be mad or upset anymore. And I was serious about what I said. You meant the world to me and even though it may seem like that I’m this cold hearted person at times, I’m the nicest once you get to know me. So by saying all this, I’m not infatuated by you. Just merely in love.
