Fear is something people go through everyday. Sometimes it’ll be something really small other days it’ll be something so major, a person has to sit at home because they’re so scared. Fear can take so much from a person living a true life and becoming out-going for themselves. Fear is the most known and inescapable thief that takes you away from being adventurous. You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, “I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along in my life.” The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A person who lives fully is prepared to die at any time because they were able to get themselves ready for the worst. If you think about it, fear is usually the only thing that keeps people from getting to things that they actually want in life. Like me for example. There are things for me that are simple and other things that are major for me. My fear is rejection. I am so scared for me to ask someone something that is important and then they reject me. I can’t take that. I need them to have mercy on because I am such a sensitive person. I feel like a lot of people take me as a joke most of the time. I mean I know I joke a lot but there are my times where I have to be serious in certain situations. And that includes when I ask a certain question you have to take me seriously if I am not smiling. My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic for by doing this we will not only change the world but also change ourselves as people and have that mentality to keep going and never give up. I'm different, and my manner invites questions. I'm never afraid to answer. But sometimes I get asked questions I never really want to answer and I never do because I don’t feel like I’m being forced to give one. But from time to time, I will have to answer those questions to show that I am capable to handle things that should be handled by mature people, like me. Don’t be afraid of your fears. They’re not there to scare you, they’re there to let you know that something is worth it. So for me rejection is not suppose to scare, it’s supposed to not only help me grow as a person but also let me know that people will tell me no and I might feel upset, hurt, depressed, sad or anything else but I also have to get over it as soon as possible too because if I don’t then who knows what could happen from that point on forward. I've learned that fear limits you and your vision. It’s as if it is a blinder to what may be just a few steps ahead for you. The journey is valuable, but believing in your talents, your abilities, and your self-worth can empower you to walk down an even brighter path. Transforming fear into freedom is something most of us tend to take for granted because since we got over it we just become more cocky because we were able to overcome something that we had to fight for and then we throw it away as if we never faced it. What you should do is overcome it and that should be the end of it. Period. People just like to gloat about things so much that
soon enough it just becomes irritating. It’s like somebody bragging about getting their driver’s license.
Just nobody cares. So you just need to stop it. Some days, twenty four hours is too much to stay put in, so
I take the day hour by hour, moment by moment. I break the task, the challenge, the fear into small,
bite-size pieces. I can handle a piece of fear, depression, anger, pain, sadness, loneliness, illness. I actually
put my hands up to my face, one next to each eye, so I can block out everything that prevents me from
succeeding in life. Yes I fear a lot of things but those things can always be overcome with confidence,
which I don’t have a lot of. But luckily I have some type of confidence to some of the things in life that I
never really get a chance to do because of certain things or obstacles that I have to face or just simply run
into. Not everyone has the confidence to get over the fears that they have or just simply run
into. Not everyone has the confidence to get over the fears that they have or want to get over. It just takes
time for them. Like for everyone else. It isn’t easy to get over fears. Yeah there are some that aren’t that
serious and then there are ones that’s so serious that it might do something to that person. Just give it time
and you can get oveer it soon enough.
