Life is a mixture

To be new

To be new, many people face problems or make problems because they are new, and the most example in life is in school, specially when someone get used to a school then suddenly he or she leave it. How would you feel, what would happen, and the important question : What are you going to do?
Many people or even tuns of them fall into mistakes when they enter the school. For me, well, I didn't feel that feelings so much, but still I can't say that I didn't face them. Unfortunately, I can't forget exactly how I actually liked her or what made me to, she is a girl named "Aya", but I remember that me and her let our parents meet each other, and the most surprising thing is that she wasn't my best friend only, she was also my neighbore, and we kept going to the same school, in 1st grade we have been in the same school ( not the one that we met ), and in 2nd and 3rd grade we made new friends, and I am still contacting with them, but in 4th grade we separated because my family moved to another faraway city, but we hardly ever saw each other after that and after that my family went to another country and we couldn't talk to each other ever again. I won't tell you what happened exactly because it's so tall, and after that I went to another school and felt the same thing "to be new".You see everyone would probably feel new and a stranger one day and will be through these events speciallyin school. Some people have ways and they join the most known people in the school or grade, and they must follow there rules, and from these ways they will be known, but am telling you these ways are wrong, okay I got the point that you want to be known and it's nice to be known in school, but still it's wrong, imagine yourself doing everything the group say, and maybe the rules or stuff that they do aren't right, you couldn't do or you didn't want, and if you tell them no they will kick you out, okay I know some people they join and nothing of this will happen to them and they will be happy, but some people they don't . First, you maybe get in troubles. Second, you won't feel comfortable. Third, you will be persuaded to do what they want or like. Forth, they won't accept you or give you any attention, you will be just a toy, that they use to do what they want. And also these ways, are related to have friends, and that's a prombelm also. As you know friends can effect you or you can effect them. They effect you that they make you do good or bad stuff, and if school is involved in this so it will high your marks or low them, and maybe they will make you get in trouble, and seriously getting in trouble specially in school is a big deal, plus you will get a punishment or you will go to the presepile and I ashore you that will be your biggest nightmare. Ok I won't go deep in the details, but you got the point. After all these causes, I don't think anyone will do that way of being known. But there are ways, good and comfortable ways. It's so simple, just do the way that you like it in school, and don't let anyone use you, have your own personality, do the stuff that you like and not what others do, but that doesn't mean that you treat them bad, be good to them but don't let them think that you are delicate, sensitive, and easy persuaded, like the story called. " Persuasion", you have to read it or watch it it's amazing and fun, reading it from a book, sorry but you will find the pictures of funny and first of the story you will find it boring but when you start with chapter 2 you will become excited to know the rest of it and you will see how a persuasion changed a girl life, I won't go deeper with details, you know, it isn't our topic. Where were we? Ow, ya, about the way, like what I said don't treat them so special, treat them normal. And also, you must know something, if people didn't like you, or didn't care about you, or even treat you silly and badly, don't care I mean don't show that you are sad or don't even get sad from the first time because they will know that you are weak, if they were talking with you rudely and badly, okay as I said don't be sad and show them but don't ignore them and also which is the important don't let them complete, tell them to stop and be strong while you are saying that for example a group of girls or boys came to you and said sillily:" Look at her or him he is good in (anything for instance art) and by the way your picture was awful" you say to them strongly and with self confident : " First, I didn't ask you for your opinion. Second of all, I am good at art . Whats the problem. Ow ya, you are jealous of me that's why your saying that" , look am not telling you to say what I said exactly but you got the point just tell them that's it's okay and say it strongly and that will or even shall let them know that you are strong and not weak so no body can say anything bad about you plus they will respect you, the group will feel nervous. This is how you will have your own personality and people will respect you. Like this, our topic will end. Thanks for listening, What am saying !!! It's a book, anyway thank you for reading and don't forget to comment and tell me your opinion, and if you had anything you want to discuss with me, my hands are free and open for you always.
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(Written, by me, the 6th grade one )