Just because you find a lecturer or teacher attractive, it doesn't mean that you'll make an advance.
Like, I have heard about student/teacher relationships (which is really weird, btw) and one of my lecturers met his wife when she was a student in his class (it was at Varsity and the age difference is also not that big)...but not everyone has that weird relationship.
This one female lecturer I have, is really gorgeous. She definitely doesn't look like a mother of two and she has a few of the guys' attention.
There is this group of guys that ALWAYS skip class, but they never miss her classes and they sit at the front and answer all her questions. They have admitted to thinking she's pretty, but they don't flirt with her.
Then my Accounting lecturer. He is not this gorgeous guy, but he is attractive and he is super confident and really intelligent and almost all the girls in my class hold him in high regards. He is like a hero and even a crush to some...
Despite this, none of us have ever tried flirting with him or flipping your hair and batting your eyelashes when he looks at you.
He also makes direct eye contact with people in the class while he talks and I promise I never thought that he might think I'm pretty when he holds eye contact with me for a long time.
Like seriously people.
Also, we do joke about it. We make up dumb stories about how he will fall for my one friend, because she like older guys, but we don't take it seriously. It's just jokes.
Wattpad normalizes really weird things and student/teacher relationships is definitely one of those.
Just FYI, you can think someone is attractive without having a crush on them and you can have a crush in a teacher or lecturer without actually doing something about it.
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