Faris Note 7

Ep 38 Counselling 1

do u think it is necessary for teachers like us to know abt guidance n counselling?

Absolutely. It's an essential human skill for me

Yes of course so that we will be able to understand our students better in order to have a better teaching and learning session.

yes, bcs student would open uo to teacher who they are comfortable with

In my pov, It is necessary. Because some of the students are more comfortable to open up and put trust on their teachers instead of going to counselling session with someone theyre not familiar with.

The world needs more support and understanding. And there not many around. So as teachers potentially, it feels like a duty and responsibility to be there to guide students, young generations more than just in educational and academic success

I'll be able to be a good listener and also help others that have problems. For me, i'll feel so blessed when i can help others.

I think because I've been in a surrounding full with people who needed that kind of help, but I couldn't help. Even I lend my ears they still need to meet the certified counselor

Other than that, it helps us - teachers to learn on how to help students with problems when they come to us for help.

Yes it is necessary for teachers to have a knowledge about guidance and counselling. Nowadays, there are many students who face a problems without share it with anyone, and not all the teachers manage to cater it up. So if the teacher have a deep knowledge about guidance and counselling, they will probably can help students in term of their problems, mentally; depression, heart to heart talk etc.

Yes because people have lots of different personalities and different backgrounds so we need to learn how to approach every problem carefully

For me, its like a basic thing for teachers. It is hard to build trust on someone that we didn't know or not so close with. So, students can open up their problems with us. Nowadays, many students didnt want to open up their problems. Some of them, just keep everything silent, and it will kill them slowly. Furthermore, it also teach us on how to deal with people with different problems. How to deal with clients and so on.  This thing also apply for outside school. Like, if any of our friends or family that are having problem. So we can help them.

Like you  Madam  for instance, you're a hero to a lot of us because of your guiding and listening skills ☺️

Yes because sometimes students doesn’t really like to share their problems. So it is important for us to help them by detecting their behaviours and learn more about what are the causes that makes them feeling like that.

yes, because teachers can help children to recognize their strengths and  sharpen their interests . For example regarding their career options after school.

Definitely madam because each person have diffirence personality and problem by understanding how to overcome or deal problem will not only help us in planning a effective teaching but also help our student to become a better students.

in my pov, firstly this knowledge helps us to understand ourselves. when we understand ourselves, we would be able to channel our emotion whenever we feel stressed / depressed. the world is sick, and to channel sick emotions, we need to understand ourselves first.

only then, we can help others. insyaAllah..

Yes madam.. we will be able to understand the students and put trust on their teachers instead of going this session

True. If I gonna choose whether to go to counselling or a person that I trust, I will choose that particular person 😂

this is especially true. we would rather go to people we are comfy with, when we want to talk n discuss anythg

tetapi, bear in mind, there are people who prefer talking to total stranger, because sometimes an issue is too sensitive, that they rather talk to strangers out of fear being humiliated

like when u talk to people who know u, u'd feel shamed. hence it is good talking to strangers bcs they dont know who u are

tu yg people prefer open up kpd ust.ebit lew, amin idris, all the PUs like PU amin, Pu rahmat, up to caprice

dude i tried once. kat majalah mangga. to azwan ali the Diva AA

that was during my zaman jahiliah. HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA

yeaaaa that was during my bbnu time la dam..

Yes it is. For instance IF we have a problem of something involving our private life or smthg, we tend to look for someone else which is expert in that particular area. Sometimes i did that too. If only i dont want people around me to know about it.

So by nature we all seek help not necessarily attention?

In my opinion, it is necessary for teachers to know the knowledge about guidance and counselling because being a teacher is not only teaching a particular subject, also know if there students who have problems that affect their studies and want share with someone.

we dont know when people actually need help; or when they just need attntion

tapi people remember GnC is not about dealing w problem je tau. it actually helps us deal w emotions. when we recognise emotion, we know how to approach people.

But madam, if someone tu, are good in hiding their emotions, how can we know if they are okay or not?

neuro linguistic programming

people can be quite good at hiding emotions; especially when they hv knowledge in counselling n psychology. tapi, it will eventually show

dangerous to the extend that one would be in denial. he / she is stressed, but he / she doesnt realise. remember, having ulcers or gastricitis are signs of stress. body is telling u that u are stressed

usah la assume they are ok when their ws status are always so cheerful. mcm cases committing suicide macam jonghyun shinee, sushant rajput, robin williams... nauzubillah

True mdm. Social medias are platform of people to show their happiness. They show us what they want us to know. Not more than that.

Sometimes people said that we have gained weight that’s why it’s hard to breath. Lemak dah berkumpul. Speechless 😂

stress during my time of ur age, was solely bcs i malas pegi skolah or malas buat kerja sekolah (i had my fair share with physics)