I'm not really sure how to end all of these stories. I have like rough ideas. Fragmented ideas. I don't really know how to end but can you guys guess already?
Bambam is doing fine.
Pa'eh is doing even better.
Along has found his true calling.
Mama Papa and Mummy Daddy are doing well looking at their kids doing so fine.
So the ending is still ongoing, if you know what I mean.
Marriage is boring. But it's gotta be like that. You gotta live fine with the boring-ness. You make do with the little things in life that makes your marriage colourful.
It's reacting to every simple thing that the other half did or say. Reacting positively. Or be lively.
Like gossiping. It's not spicy enough if you just don't react. Pass the vibe! You gotta show that you are interested enough with the gossip. That's how you are still friends, right?
Like when your wife is telling you that she's upset with lots of things. Takkan you nak buat diam je. You react positively. Validate her feelings. Show concern! She must be so upset that the feeling is affecting her. Then you tell her things that she can possibly do in that situation.
Or when a husband is keeping his quiet to you, because he's overthinking about lots of things. So, why don't you, as a wife, try to cheer him up a little, do what you do best, making him smile again, letting him at the end to pour out this feeling or his rants to you? Try to understand him instead of letting your emotion gets to you. Like 'lantaklah ko tak nak cakap dengan aku, aku lagi tak nak cakap dengan kau.' Hello! You are married and you wanna be married for long, right? So, you gotta play your part. Whatever it is, you love each other. Or used to! Or whatever!
I don't know. I was never married. Hehe!
And I know it's never easy. Marriage is never easy! But I really hope that you'll do just fine! I really do! And I hope this dua reach out really well for everyone out there who's struggling with marriage.
So, that's the end of My Bambam. Hope to see y'all soon in my new penwork!
Ciao! Hasta la vista!
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