Question: Why am i hitting on so many people after a break up?
Well it matters on the person but usually its because the break up hasn't really set in or you just are in a daze and you need someone to love you or pay attention to you. Its usually because all of your emotions are all over the place and you need comfort. So some might find comfort in pizza because of its cheesy goodness or some might go out with friends. I've actually seen this happen before where my friend went through a breakup so he invited us over to his house and the everything was.
"My ex liked pizza...My ex liked this song, change it....My ex loved 21 Jump Street."
It just matters on how you handle your emotions, my other friend had this thing where she learned every chord to 7 things I had about you and sang them, she ended up breaking a string on the guitar but she still knows how to play it.
Eventually you wont feel the need to flirt with everyone and you will start to move on and it wont hurt as much and you will be okay.
STORY TIME
I remember when I was dumped by my first boyfriend, it didnt hit me right away so I was okay for the first two days and I was like.
"PSHH WHO NEEDS A BOYFRIEND. BEING SINGLE IS SOOOOO MUCH BETTER."
And then I started to realize I couldn't text him or call him because he didnt want to be with me. So I ended up typing a text to him and then stare at it having my finger hover over send and then my mom always saved me and always asked.
"Are you sure thats really a good idea, jack? Do you really want to do that?"
I ended up snuggled up in a blanket while watching all of the high school musical movies (this was 8th grade like legit) and singing along like "Shes got to go her own Troy, she doesnt want you. Just like he doesnt want me." And then I would stuff ice cream in my mouth and sob and then realize that my dog was licking the ice cream off my spoon -_-
But I had the support of my friends who dragged me out of my house and forced me to go shopping and have actual human contact. But your heart wont be broken forever! STAY POSITIVE!!
YOU DONT NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF!!!
Have a wonderful day bitches xoxo
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