Advice From A Gay Guy

Chapter of many questons

I like this boy, but he like this girl in his grade. I'm one yr 8 and he's yr 9. He said I was 'really cute' but he doesn't like me I guess? Cause he said he didn't cause he barley knows me. I was wondering how do I get him to like me? Thanks xx

He very well might like another girl but he also doesn't know you very much. So instead of having the mentality of 'i need to get him to like me' why not have the mentality of 'i wanna talk to him and get to know him more'. Friends before best friends before bae. Mkay? Alright cutie, best of luck xx

Ok so my best friend just came out in the beginning of the school year to everyone, but just recently his moms side is trying to say that hes not really ga bc last year he would tlk about girls being hot etc. my friend is lost and doesn't know how to prove it to them. Plz tell me what he should do.

He doesn't have to prove anything to them. He loves who he loves and thats that. Nobody else can tell you who you can love and who you are and what you believe. YOU are in charge of that.

How to get over a crush that has committed suicide?

First step is acceptance. This may take awhile and thats okay, you are allowed a pity party and full on crying sessions and curled up in bed alone party. Take as long as you need. Why not try to write in a journal or diary to get out your feelings, this will help with the acceptance process and take you to the next step, which is talking to someone about it. If you feel you cant talk to anybody, if the funeral is over and they have a grave, why not go talk to them at their grave. It helps to talk things out. Next is to write them a letter, put all your feelings and thoughts and things you never said. Put it in an envelope and seal it and put it somewhere safe. After this step, get back up and start to try to live again. Things will not be the same, true and you will miss them dearly, yes. But you can get back up again and go back at it. If you feel like you cant do it with just friend, family support. Why not talk to a therapist, this will also help. Best of luck my love!<3

So, lately I've been feeling like I've been in a rut. Like, I've been half a$$ing almost everything because I can't feel the inspiration or reason to do it. Any suggestions on how to get out ruts? Please and thank you ^.^

Ive been there before! Why not try something new, going out of your comfort zone can help you get inspired and give you reasons to do something. Write a list of the things you want to accomplish and get support from other people to get you to do it. Sometimes doing little changes can make for a really big outcome. Best of luck!

Hey. I am moving to a new school next year. I've tried to watch videos on advice, I guess, for moving to a new school.. They ALL say the same thing; get involved in things. Do you have any advice that's not, like, completely obvious? Thank you. xoxo.

The only advice I really have is to keep a positive outlook. If you have a crummy outlook then things wont go so nicely. Also just be yourself and i'm sure everything will go great! (PS: My mom always put a stressball in my backpack when I was younger and if you ever get stressed out just squeeze the crap out of the ball and it will release some tension).

I'm not sure if you've been on in a while but anyways, I am very insecure about my weight. I am overweight and I really do want to lose weight. The thing is; I can't motivate myself, at all. I don't enjoy exercising/sports and I usually forget that I'm on a diet. Help please?

I know that exercise may suck to you so why not grab a running or excerise buddy to help motivate you! The support does wonders. I had a running buddy for a long time to keep me motivated when I really wanted to quit. Why not set small goals for yourself to, accomplishing small goals will help you lead to your main goal. But it will make it TONS easier:)