Advice From A Gay Guy

Feeling shy

Question: hi!! so uh, im really awkward. not in that glorified tumblr way but im sorta shy and i cant even order my own food without feeling shaky and nervous. i used to be really perky and outgoing, and lots of people liked me but im not sure why i became so shy? any ideas on why?

Well there could be many ways but from what you told me I think as you matured and grew up you became self concious and people started to make you nervous. I went through that too, in middle school I remember I became nervous and i was really shy because I wasn't confident with myself.

Sometimes our life experiences make us shyer (making up plural words that dont exist but there is no red line under it! SO HA!) (oh wait i had it turned off.awks.) For instance if you were bullied at one point or are, you might become self concious and not confident in yourself and thus becoming shy.

Or if your parents and friends or people in general put you down you tend to be shyer (is that how you spell it? This looks strangeeeeeeee. halp)

Try and take a deep breathe before talking to someone and reminding yourself that you are worthy and that you are awesome and fabulous! You are perfect just the way you are:D

Have a wonderful day bitches xoxo