To be in the closet or out

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Hey there my little wonderful bitches<3

Okay so this is like a whole mess of questions but all revolve around sexuality. I really do apologize if i am answering your question 4 months late. I am really behind on answering questions.

Love you cuties,

Jack

So... I Really like guys, but every now and then, I would also like a certain girl. But I would always hangout with the guys I like, but always text and chat with the girl more. Am I bisex? B/c I rather fuck a guy, and not a girl.

I think you just answered your own question, love. From the sound of it, it really doesnt seem like you have a full on interest in girls. Of course, i dont know for sure because i dont know all the details. But you do! So maybe experiment a bit more. See how you feel around your guy crushes versus the time that you like a certain girl. Notice your body language around your crushes.

I came out to my parents as being bi/pan and they didnt give a crap. But in the worst way. They didnt take me srsly. They know i can like girls (im a guy) but not guys. HELP MEH PLEEZ‎

Im sorry to hear that your parent didnt take you seriously! i've gotten quite a bit of messages like this. Some people are going to be stuck in their ways. Stay true to your heart in what you identify as and maybe the idea will grow on them. A lot of people just don't understand. Think of it like this, when we are a child the idea of words is difficult for us. Writing is hard as our shaky little wrists tremble to form letters that we saw the grown ups in our life form perfectly. To your parents this is the same thing. Their knowledge and understanding of who you love is like the shaky speech and penmanship. We can only hope that they overtime understand the idea.

Hey! So I know that i'm bi and i'm really afraid to tell my friends and my family. I don't know what to do and it keeps me up at night and i'm afraid i'm not going to get accepted by my friends and family. I also know some homophobes so I don't know how they will react. I really don't know what to do. Thanks. I love your book, your so inspiring. :)
(This was from 7 months ago, sorry hun)

This is SUCH a common question, I get this all the time. And they all come down to the fear of not being accepted. If your friends leave you because of who you are then they really weren't the most supportive friends. If your family disowns you because of WHO YOU ARE they are the ones that dont see the light in you. If somebody lets something as simple as who you love stop them from liking you, how shallow is that? The concept has always baffled me. Why would you love someone one day for all of their rough edges and flaws and the next disown them because of who they love? It just doesnt make sense to me. People are going to be people. They are going to judge, they are going to speak their opinions and you know what? thats fine. They are entitled to their own opinions. But their opinions are not YOUR opinions. You have your own set of opinions. Anothers person opinion should not be yours just because you want to fit in, okay. You need acceptance of yourself above anyone elses opinion of you. If you are yourself, if you are true to who you are then others opinions of you dont matters. For the coming out part, its really all you. Some people say it bluntly while others take a creative route. Its really what you feel comfortable with. I cant be the decider on what you are most comfortable with because i am not you. You are you and the greatest thing about that is you get to make decisions for yourself and you get to choose and be happy with the choice that you have made.

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