Advice From A Gay Guy

Does He Like Me?

Question: My crush is really funny, weird af, and silly, when he's with me and my friends, but when his friends from an older class are there, he totally blocks us out! he tries to hold my hand, he hugs me, and we share our food but i dont know if its playful or not. My friends and others say that he likes me, but when the topic is brought up, he always uses the excuse that i'm a tomboy. sometimes, i think that i'm annoying because when i text him he either replies shortly or nothing at all! What do you think is going on? plz answer/tysm:)

Alright so it doesn't sound playful it does sound like he does like you more than a friend. But guys get nervous too! We are human and when we like someone we tend to kind guard ourselves a little more and give off the wrong impression. Based on the fact that you two were really close before could make him think it would be awkward. Now EVERY GUY IS DIFFERENT when it comes to flirting, showing he cares, etc. About the texting thing, when you say that it does sound like he's ignoring you slightly. But he may just haven't matured enough to think about a relationship. Honestly I think you should confront him about the ignoring you when talking to his friends and the texting thing. I mean we could sit here all day guessing and thinking of every theory possible but the only way you will know for sure is if you ask.

To me it does sound like he likes you, the ignoring while with his friends usually means he doesn't want his friends to know. As guys we do joke around and tease each other a lot and sometimes we keep a crush from our friends because we just dont want to be teased about it.

So honestly I think you should pull him aside or ask to hang out with just him and got to a place that you won't be interrupted and tell him that you are worried you are annoying him and that you aren't sure why he ignores you. The thing about us guys is we dont really look into all the little details, I will admit that. Talking to some of my friends that are females they have admitted that y'all tend to overthink things and you want emotional responses and you want us to notice certain things. When the truth is we usually dont. You could drop so many fucking hints that you want something for your birthday and some guys will just be totally blind to it while others will notice. I am talking general here, i mean there are tons of guys that don't have that thing.

But in general you have to tell us because communication is really key. I cannot stress enough how important COMMUNICATION is in a relationship or friendship. So yeah because honestly we never know for sure until we ask so.

BEST OF LUCK!

Have a wonderful day bitches xoxo