Advice From A Gay Guy

Long Distance Relationships

Question: How to tell your parents youre in long distance relationship?

I'm in a long distance relationship. Do you know any ways to save/make money at 14? Also, like coping, talking to parents about them, money, etc I don't know if you've been in one, but thank you if you do answer Idk if please fits but pls cx

Alright so I have gotten TONS of questions on long distance relationships and I just picked these two because i feel like it will answer (hopefully) most of what you guys are wondering about on this topic.

So there isn't much to do other than just tell your parents, I wouldn't do it over text because lets be honest. It's not cool to text your mom or dad and be like.

"YO! so guess what I have a boyfriend/girlfriend that is long distance and im telling you over text because yeah."

like.

no.

just.

no.

So tell them face to face and be like "hey, so there is this guy/girl....."and tell them the romance story or what not. And let them know how you feel, some parents scoff at long distance but it's really your choice and decision but listening to others advice can sometimes help. So you know communicate with your parents on this long distance relationship. Who knows, maybe they had at one point been in a long distance relationship and can help out.

Be prepared for lots of questions from your parents, this is not to make you annoyed or pissed off. They are just worried and they care and they wanna know this special person to you that you have laid out time to talk to and you want to have a steady relationship with.

Okay for the second question. Since you are 14, you cannot get a professional job at least not on the table. But you can do things around the neighborhood if you live in one. You can do yardwork, dog or cat sitting, babysitting, etc..to get money. I have been in one long distance relationship before hand, it was difficult but I think if you both put your hearts into it. It can work out.

The thing that is difficult about long distance is that you don't get to act like other couples do. You cant hold each others hands or anything like that because you aren't physically there with them. But I used to video chat him when we both were free and yeah, it was hard. I missed him a lot and that goes with any relationship when you are apart from each other. And you just have to remember that they are where ever they are, most likely feeling the same way. It helps to get your mind off of it, keep yourself busy and trust them. For long distance to work, there has to be trust and communication efforts between each other. Like any relationship you need those components, you also have to be very understanding. Their schedules are different, time zones, they have their own life that they are living and you have to be understanding of that and yeah, it will be difficult but i have heard that is quite worth it if you can keep it going.

I hoped this helped! Best of luck!

Have a wonderful day bitches xoxo

PS: There have been lots of questions on me not answering all of the questions.

If you ask me a question that is extremely similar to another question, I will answer it in general.

For example, I have written a chapter on going into high school.

I am not going to write a chapter on going into 8th grade, most likely because it is too similar to the high school one and a lot of the tips from the going into high school can be used for going into the 8th grade.

That's just my logic on the whole shabangg and what not (Lets just pretend I didn't just make that sentence)

Sound good? If it doesnt, too bad because that's what the logic is.