Tolkien Elven Imagines and Headcanons Volume 1

35. Dating Fëanor

-  Fëanor loves you deeply, everything he feels is deep and an extreme, so his love for you is done and felt in the exact same manner.

- First and foremost, when it comes to dating Fëanor you are going to have to learn to deal with tempestuous temper, and his intense stubbornness.

- It doesn't take much to rile his temper up, with you he is more likely to tame it and keep it under wraps up until you may bring a complaint to him about him.

- Such as if he is spending too much time away from you and in the forges, or if you disagree with something he so strongly feels about- which is honestly about a lot of things.

- You will have to understand that his time will be very split between you and the forges, as he loves you both incredibly much.

- He will learn that just because you disagree with him, doesn't mean that you feel he has to change his opinion or mind on it.

- Another thing that riles up that famous temper is his jealousy and possessiveness over you.

- A good way to spark that stubbornness is wanting to do anything dangerous, arguing with him about something or once again complaining about his time in the forges.

- Its a hard balancing act, between you and the forges as well as the understanding of different opinions. But once he gets the hang of it, it's much easier and there will be less arguing.

- Fëanor doesn't take kindly to the idea that you might not be feeling like you're well taken care of and he is happy to genuinely remedy wherever you are feeling neglected.

- If you're struggling with anything that is emotional, while he isn't the most verbally comforting, he will logically walk you through what ails you and reassure you where you need it.

- And when you need physical affection during this time, absolutely expect for him to be generous in his effort to soothe whatever it is you're feeling.

- Especially if it's something that hurts you so deeply, he may not understand fully why it has you upset. But he does understand the struggle of feeling so intensely.

- If you ever need any extra affection, Fëanor is more than willing to shower you in whatever it is you could possibly desire from him.

- He absolutely has no issues breaking any shred of propriety to make sure you aren't left questioning how he feels for you.

- Even if its a little bit inappropriate, like neck kisses, and his hands being dangerously low on your hips as he holds you to him.

- Maybe even pressing his lips to your very sensitive ear just for the sake of your reaction, not giving a care that is in public. Fëanor has no shame.

- Expect all of your material needs to be well taken care of too!

- Any and all gowns/tunics/robes you could want, all of your jewelry- specially crafted by Fëanor himself, shoes, paper, fabrics, absolutely anything you could ask for, Fëanor will provide.

- Even though you are only dating anticipate for there to be extremely serious talks of the two of you starting your own family together.

- Yes he has seven sons already, but what is 2 more... 3 more... or 7 more, maybe even more.

- He loves children and if you're more than willing to have them, then Fëanor is more than willing to generously provide as many as you want when the time comes. 

- Though be careful about making this a promise if you feel like it is something you will change your mind on later.

- He takes promises very seriously, so make sure that any and all promises, no matter what they are about, are said with care and great consideration as Fëanor will hold you to it.

- When it comes to protection, you will never ever have to worry about whether or not Fëanor will keep you safe.

- With great pleasure will he do anything to keep you safe from anything that might bring you harm.

- He doesn't care who or what it is that is threatening you, Fëanor will handle it without a second guess or thought as you mean so much to him and you are his.

- He loves you and couldn't imagine losing someone he loves so deeply once again.