Tolkien Elven Imagines and Headcanons Volume 1

178. Nolofinwean's Love Language

Fingolfin- Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch, Acts of Service

Fingolfin certainly knows how to use his words, and while he is no poet that doesn't mean that he won't indulge you with Words of Affirmation. Fingolfin is almost always doling out compliments or words of comfort and praise to you somehow or another. Wanting to make sure he knows your loved and appreciated to the fullest extent.

Physical Touch is another way that Fingolfin likes to make you feel love and adored. Though in public these things are kept very simple, as he does like to follow the rules of propriety. But there's nothing greater than having you on his arm, your head resting against his bicep, or feeling you lean against him while he has a hand on your lower back. In private he is far more unrestrained and careful and loving with the affection he gives to you. Making up for all the restrained affections in public.

While you returning the Words of Affirmation to him as well as Physical Touch is a great way to help him feel loved, Acts of Service is a great way to make Fingolfin just feel so cared about. He doesn't anticipate for you to take on huge undertakings, nor does he anticipate for you to help with much at all if you choose not too. But when you do something helpful, or something for him to just make his day easier and show him that he was on your mind, it just sends his heart soaring. Happy to know that you care about him as much as he cares about you.

Fingon- Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation

Fingon is a pretty simple ellon, so when it comes to showing how much you mean to him, Fingon is happy to show you in the ways of kisses and embraces. Soft, feathery and lighthearted kisses being peppered across your face or wrapping his arms around you from behind to hold you close to his chest. Also giving him the most opportune way to press more kisses to you.

Another way Fingon shows his love and affection for you is with the Words of Affirmation he gives to you. Fingon is ALWAYS saying sweet and gentle things to you, singing you high praise and he always has a sweet way with his words. Always too is there a lightheartedness as well, as Fingon likes to keep everything happy and airy.

The greatest way you could make him feel loved in return out of the sweet things he does for you, is by doing those exact same things in return for him. Fingon is simple, so he doesn't need lavish gifts or you to do a billion things to show him how much you love him. Your I love you's, and sweet words, and hand holdings and hugs and kisses just make his heart sing with joy.

Turgon- Words of Affirmation, Gift Giving, Physical Touch

Like his father, Turgon is no poet, but that doesn't mean that he doesn't shower you with high praise and words of comfort. Turgon makes comments a lot of the time of your beauty, praising it and how wonderful you are. Though they are always in soft and discreet whispers, leaning over to tell you how he feels with a soft smile on his face. Just wanting you to know that you are what is consuming his thoughts.

Gift Giving is another one of Turgon's favorite ways to show you how much he cares for you. He loves the idea of knowing that he's taking care of you and all of your needs, especially in the form of materials that you are in need of. Even if it is the simplest things, Turgon likes to go out of his way to get it for you especially if you are unaware of what he's doing. He loves seeing the way your face lights up when he comes with the things you needed without prompt. He just loves you so much and wants to make sure you're hardly having to worry about anything.

While Turgon is very restrained and a stickler for propriety, when it comes to time in private anything goes. Especially when it comes down to Physical Touch, and Turgon loves it when you want to shower him in your affections. There's nothing greater than getting back to your shared chambers after a long day, and you come to give him a hug and hold him close to you. Even the little and simplest affections are so loved and appreciated, it brings immense joy to Turgon even if his reactions seem so much more tame.

Argon- Acts of Service, Gift Giving, Physical Touch

When it comes to Love Languages, Argon is naturally stiff and a little more disciplined, so starting off in your relationship with Acts of Service is going to be the best way he shows you how much he loves you. Argon will do just about anything for you if you asked him too, and he has no issue going completely and totally out of the way to do something that would help you. Be it labor intensive or something as simple as getting you a few things. Argon is happy to help you however you need him too.

Gift giving is both a great way that makes Argon feel loved and a way that he likes to try and make you feel loved too. Argon isn't one for super lavish and extravagant gift giving, he loves the little things that seem to capture your attention the best. The same goes for receiving, Argon loves sticking his hand in his pocket and finding some soft reminder of you like a pressed flower or note you stuck in there. Or for you to do the same in your pockets and find sweet little reminders of him.

The way that Argon grows to love and adore to show and be shown love is Physical Touch. Argon is stiff at first in your relationship, literally. But slowly he loosens and warms up to your affections, and learns to give in return as well. Argon adores it, he loves the way your hand feels against him, and the softness of your kisses.

Maeglin- Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation

When it comes to Maeglin, being in a healthy and good relationship is going to be rather intimidating for him. So the best way he figures he knows how to show he loves you is by doing things for you. It's usually things that you didn't ask for him to do, and that he heard you make comment on how you needed it done. Maeglin isn't flashy at all about it, he's very subtle as he doesn't want a ton of attention over. Though it admittedly feels good when you do praise him over it, and thank him for it. Maeglin just wants you to know, despite the subtlety of his affections for you, that you mean everything to him.

While Maeglin isn't the best at Physical Touch, especially at first, as he slowly warms up to it Maeglin tries to take initiative to give you all of his affection. Once he is good and comfortable, he is very content with laying down with you and holding you close to him. Though in turn you could use this opportunity to give him all of your affections to make him feel so incredibly loved. Your soft and gentle touch just makes him melt.

The best and greatest way to make Maeglin feel adored and loved and cared for is showering him in sweet Words of Affirmation. After growing up the way he did, hearing such gentle and kind words just make him feel so touched. It bubbles such intense love inside of him for you. Though he acts all flustered and blushing deeply, each word of praise and affection you sing to him meaning the absolute world to him. As he can hardly believe that you would shower him with such things.