What sort of things I wish I knew it before reaching adulting stage?
1. Importance of time which includes time management. When you were a teenager, you were focused on what makes you happy at the moment rather than spending your time learning personal growth and development.
2. Choosing long term plans over short term plans. We want to achieve something without thinking the result or its impact in the future.
3. Being wise of making decisions in life. In our early age we live our life like a river, we just go with the flow instead of making alphabetical plans.
4. How to be good in managing your finances because someday Reality hits you that life is about paying bills, providing your basic needs to yourself, and to your family.
5. Lesser expectations for everything. Everything that's too much could lead you to destruction including having too much expectations. How we perceived life is mostly different from the result.
6. Life lessons cannot be learned at school or during academe (in a theoretical sense) but it can only be learned through experience.
7. Your academic achievements doesn't last a lifetime so focused on having a good character rather than academic excellence. Though the latter can be so advantageous but the former is higher in its value because as the saying goes, "To be influential is to be good on your character."
8. Having a high level of intelligence doesn't mean you'll acquire wisdom.
9. Your mindset really matters especially in dealing with problems and finding solutions.
10. Focused on Spiritual growth and progression because in the end of our lives what really matters is how mindful and conscious we are to our Creator. You can't live a happy life without being conscious of God's existence.
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