projecting and idealizing

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sometimes i think i'm doing something original and then i realize that i'm just projecting some unexplored feelings lmao

and then also i'll really want to know a person and be all sadboi about not knowing them and it turns out i'm super idealizing them and thinking way too much about them just in my head when i could be. actually getting to know them. and like. interacting.

relevant together because i realized that a story i'm working on right now is actually just a super big projected relationship goal, slightly modified of course, and that the irl relationship that the projection is based off of has changed significantly since i first started writing it.

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