Struggles

Girls!

I once had a conversation with my ex-girlfriend, here it comes.

" We - girls -  like grabbing attention, even queens who get enough attention all day.
We like you embracing our beauty, we like you appreciating our effort.

We got enough of ' hormones ', we need a shoulder to carry on after a long hard day of hard work and patience.

Especially during this era of women being special, working hard as well as caring for their homes, we need someone who really cares and loves us deep to his bones.

Maybe you don't always understand this, but this is the truth, and nothing is going to change what we feel towards you if you don't give a shit about us; first impressions are incomparable.

Maybe we are moody sometimes, we don't show love as you expect, I don't know about men as much, but I surely know that when a girl loves a man she utterly does by all means, not because she is ready to give her soul for him and these cheesy words, just because she is ready to be his family, his home, the mother of his kids and all.

However, we are not birds of a feather. We are of all colours and shapes;
We've got the moody, the loyal, the snake.. we've got it all. Just remember to be with the one that's right for you, and she would do whatsoever for the sake of your relationship.
She could cross seas and oceans for the love of her family she would build up with you, no doubt in that.

If she cries the night away sometimes, that's okay, we sometimes cry not to bloat over time.
We sometimes scream our feelings out. We, other times, don't say a word.

And remember, even we're weaker physically, we are the strongest emotionally. We get attached and we express more than guys do. That's the secret of our strength, I guess. We can show emotions. We can do that.

Those are the wisest words I can tell you about a girl, and because you are still learning these, I don't think we could be together for now.
I think I'll leave you, and if it's for good, don't feel sad, at least you've learnt how to treat your woman now.

If you want to rule a kingdom, you have to get yourself a queen.
She is the one who actually rules, sometimes.
And yet you still don't get it.
One day you will. "

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I think I'll never see her again, maybe she is with someone who knows what she explained briefly already.

She was right anyhow.