Society's fucked up. Like majorly fucked up. I doubt people want to be raised around standards that other people have set up for them to fit into. I highly doubt they want to be criticized for being what they want to be. After all It is called my life for a reason. Not yours so don't try to control it. Its like a mold and when one tries to change that mold its like they committed a sin or something which is totally not the case. Society's just filled with close minded people who need to loosen up a bit and learn to accept people. Nobody should be afraid to come out to their parents just cuz if which gender they feel attracted to or if they dont feel like they are meant to be a certain gender or things along those lines. No matter who or what they like they are still human. And the fact that they're your children shunning them and yelling at them that they're a fucking disgrace to the family wont change the fact that they're still your blood. Also the fact that you tell me I haven't shaved in a while makes me look ugly is completely fucked up. When did the fact of if you shaved determines if you look ugly or pretty. Or in my case the way I wear my hijab (headscarf) makes me look like a kid or not. I dont fucking care If it does I'm still wearing one. Would you rather me not wearing one. The majority of girls in our community don't even wear one so shut up and keep your snide comments to yourself thank you so very much. Okay weight is a big fucking issue. Let's get this straight YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL AND YOU SHOULDN'T BELIEVE ANYBODY WHO TELLS YOU OTHERWISE. Don't starve yourself cuz if stupid assholes telling you that you weigh too much cuz you don't. Even doctors are so stupid. Man I wanna punch them sometimes. Partially cuz I live with one but that's besides the point. You yes you the one reading this are beautiful and nobody can change that. That mold made up by society includes so many things one of the main being weight. Especially in the community I live in if you weigh too much people make fun of you behind your back and then you come home to the constant yelling of you being too fat and all that. Then when you do start to loose weight literally for me my parents didnt let me eat anything after I started supposedly" dieting" . And then when I saw everybody from my community again they were like woah you lost a lot of wieght good job but you gotta loose more weight. Like please I do what I please. My body thank you very much. Not yours. But basically people are stupid and complete assholes and as hard as it may be to not let it get to you when they say hurtful things you can do it. You're strong. Remember that.
thats_r00d this is what happened...plus more.
You are loved and cared for and accepted by me.
And others.
Stay alive and strong cuz you can do it. I promise you can.
