There are two types of black women in this world.
The one that embraces her place as an African queen. And the other who trys to do anything thing to get away from her throne.
Ya girls back and there's something I need to get off of my chest.
I've noticed in my recent presence on the interweb in the woc, particularly black, communities there has been this want, desire, pressure to obtain and have curly hair.
Now I'm not talking about that beautiful 4c bundle of curls that I hold on my very head. I'm talking about some 3a type shit.
This is a new movement that is just as bad as perming
It's not that it is as unhealthy as perming but it holds the same bases behind it.
To be the farthest thing from black.
Now this came about when my sister insisted to put curl enhancer into my 1 year old nieces head.
My sister is a year younger than me and we hold very different bases on hair.
I'm more fros and protective styling, while she growing up was more perms, straightening, and now she's woken up to the harm of that and insists on creating curls in her head that does not exist.
Now I have no problem what she does with her head, since it is her own.
But what she does to someone else and ,at that the youth, is just something im not going to have.
Like I understand that it's a desired look but you will not fuck up her hair growth.
Then I went on this very rant about how some black women are the first to some down your throat how unhealthy what you do to your hair is yet will do anything to hinder the natural state of their own.
While she retaliates with a 'you don't know anything about natural hair, you've worn weaves your entire life'
Might I add that I didn't start wearing "weaves" i.e. protective styling such as braids and twist until I was around 10 or 11.
Which I believe is a suitable age for a young woman to start that stuff.
Not to mention once again that I've never had a full weave, with glue or shit like that. The closest thing I've had is a sew in with braids in the front.
Yet I don't know shit and my hair is a million times healthier than hers will ever be.
No tea, no shade.
The black women is a tainted species that needs to be repaired one woman at a time.
I can't change the mind of the world but I hope to change the mind of some.
Don't follow hair trends be what you need to be but just make sure it's natural as can be.
That's it.
Gotta blast.✌
