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yes, hello, welcome to a rant that I would like to call

feminism 

now, let me just start off by saying that I'm not atheist or satanic so when I talk about god or whatever and you don't like it - well, you can suck my ass.

anyways, to the rant

first off all, if you can't respect a woman's body, you need to get the fuck away from me.

honestly, because god didn't put all you guy things on this earth and just decide well, let's allow them to communicate and rejoice in an act of love and shit

no. 

okay, he put females on the earth for a reason too.

and i'm sorry if I sound like a complete asshole here, but if you disrespect a woman's body by sexually harassing her into something she doesn't want to do -

tbh, I hope satan has a nice, reserved space for you in hell.

Y O U    D O N ' T   F U C K I N G   D O   T H A T   O K A Y ? !

THINK OF HOW YOU GUYS TREAT YOURSELVES - LIKE, YES, I MUST HAVE MUSCLES AND BE SKINNY AND TALL AS FUCK SO FEMALES HAVE TO LOOK UP TO US, AND BE HANDSOME AND KINDA PERFECT AND PLAY SPORTS AND SHIT

WELL, NEWS FLASH- WE, WOMEN, WOULD LIKE TO DO THE SAME TOO.

okay, so girls are usually the ones who go down with depression or severe self-esteem issues and have a hard time making ourselves look like the stereotypes we throw out there more often then we choose to keep in our minds.

also a stereotype that girls usually have self-esteem issues.

and don't get me wrong, guys have them too, it's just that it seems like guys have this effect on us like medication, and poisons our brains to thinking we must be like the magazine cover-models or some shit.

guys: you must have big boobs and a nice ass and great, soft hair and be super skinny, but also have curves and small hands and feet and perfect teeth and pretty eyes and this adorable, girlish laughter and voice, oh, and don't forget that makeup and outfits must be on point, ok hun, love you

honestly, back the fuck off, asshole, I'm not beyonce.

guys sometimes treat us like fucking shit.

they use physical contact as a source of love or affection, grabbing what they can and all that other stupid shit.

okay, look, how about you guys just kiss us and talk about life with us and watch the stars and listen to music together, you don't have to get in our jeans on the first date smh

the only thing girls can really use as a physical contact is something I would not like to discuss and even then, we don't just fucking grab that shit outta nowhere, like what the hell

I seriously adore the guys who take a girl for who she is, like her personality - which most people see as the perfect person to date and the key to their soul and whatever.

but honestly, you go dude,

you take her feelings into consideration.

oh and if you're having self-esteem issues, you just need to acquire that 'i don't give a fuck' attitude and pretend like you're the princess ok bae

you strut down that hallway like you own it and you eat that huge slice of pizza and you sit on the couch watching netflix instead of working out

you know, you go glenn coco.

you can wear anything that your heart desires and drink what you like and flip anyone off to whoever points out that you're not wearing makeup, because you do you boo

if you're tired, don't try to hide it.

you walk into that school and let everyone know that you're tired and ready to kill a man.

but most of all, just love yourself.

most girls don't have that adored body type and shit, because I sure as hell don't

I complain all the time about not having small hands and shit, and I'm not pretty at all, alright

but you know, even though I wear a security blanket and I cover up my flaws behind my semi-straight hair, I still try letting out what everyone thinks of me.

I'm happy.

I have a boyfriend that really likes me, and I really like him, and I don't give a shit, I'll eat pizza and popcorn and candy and all sorts of stuff around him and make stupid mistakes and laugh my real laugh whenever something funny on supernatural comes up, and you know what, I cry in front of him and I get angry sometimes and make really ugly faces, but he still accepts me for me, so idc, you asshats.

and I know a lot of you have trouble with saying 'no' to a guy that might seem very attractive and very sweet and stuff, but you have to know if he's right or not.

it's risky, I know, I know

but guys are very self-centered sometimes and only want you for your body a lot of the time. It happens to everyone once in their life, okay? 

don't cry over the fact that he broke up with you for not having a good enough body, because someone else will be gettin dat ass, so his loss, right?

of course, hearts are broken, and I get that.

emotions are stronger than realization and lucid thinking, so I get what you're getting at.

I'm just saying...love yourself and only yourself until someone comes around

and by someone, I mean the person you know loves you too,

and even then,

still love yourself.

idk, I just wanted to say some of that to the people looking for a rant (kinda wasn't a rant, just saying that guys should keep their hands off of us, ya know?) and also looking for a message that says to really adore yourself like someone else will, and that you're as unique as the stars, sweetheart - and they're still beautiful too.

kms for over 1k words omg

i need to dry my hair ugh

and then i'm gonna get a big glass of chocolate milk bc i deserve that shit

ilysfm xx