to my future daughter:
if you ever begin to wonder if he is the one, ask yourself: does his laughter warm your body from the inside out? do you dance in his living room while drinking cheap wine? i hope so, and i hope you're both drunk and terrible and laughing so hard you cry. does he tell you how beautiful you are, and if yes, does he say it when the morning light falls upon your face? more importantly, when he tells you, do you believe him? can you cry in front of him? i hope you can, that means you trust him. when it's pouring rain does he know that if your hair is curled or your eyes are sad that means he should get the car and bring it to you? when he asks what you want for dinner and you say you aren't hungry, does he ask if you've eaten already? have you figured out where he's ticklish? don't let him convince you he's not, i promise you he is. have you frustrated the hell out of him yet? you will, oh you will, but it's how you two come out of it that matters. and when he said he loved you for the very first time, did you respond by asking if he's afraid of heights? i hope with my entire soul that he said yes because that means, despite his fear, he fell for you. now, darling, you tell me, is he the one?
