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Advice + Rant

Okay, so this definitely has nothing to do with the whole MagCon topic at all which is pretty much all this preference and imagine book is about buuuuuuut I have a lot of things I have to get off of my chest. So recently (last night) I got a random message from this boy that I used to be in love with, like literally I talked to him all day, spent hours on the phone with him and everything. Well, we stopped talking because I was tired of the games, and I basically had to move on because I had to do what was best for me. So  he goes out and gets a girlfriend, and I'm like lol whatever I don't care. 

But then last night he hits me up and acts like everything is totally cool between us, and to be honest I hate every part of him because he hurt me and made me cry and depressed the entire summer. He has no idea that I know about his girlfriend so last night he tried to get me to sext him and all of this other stuff, and he got mad when I said no.

1) YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND. Fuckboys these days, god damn man. Stay loyal to your girl, what the hell is wrong with you?

2) I DO NOT WANT A THING TO DO WITH YOU. I explained this to him multiple times, if you hurt me I'll remember it. I gave multiple chances, more than I should have until he finally drained me and I was done.

He begged me and I was like no sorry. I knew exactly what he wanted - he just wanted a quick fix and then he wouldn't speak to me until he wanted to, and personally I'm not going to be used like that.

So here's my advice, if your ex, or some random fuckboy or fuckgirl hits you up and is like "hey baby it's been awhile. ;)" You tell them to go to hell and you NEVER talk to them again. If they hurt you and made you cry they don't deserve to talk to you. No one is worth your tears, I promise. You should never let anyone use you or treat you like some sort of game piece. So if you're ever in this situation you brush it off, because you are a strong ass girl, and you don't need some guy or girl or ANYONE using you. I promise that you are worth so much more than what you think you are, and you should never ever ever ever do something that you're not comfortable with. And if you know that the person is in a relationship you need to put them in their place, because 99% of the time their partner has no clue what's going on. Don't help ruin someone's relationship, what if someone did that to you? 

So don't let anyone use you, don't be a little cheater, and be strong and independent. You DON'T need to be in a relationship to be happy. Whoever said that and convinced others of it is absolutely out of their fucking mind. You don't need anyone else. Surround yourself with things that you love. YOU control your happiness. YOU. Not anyone else. No one. I swear.

So if a boy, or a girl tries to talk you into doing somnething that you're not comfortable with and they've hurt you multiple times before kick their ass to the side because they don't deserve you. ♡