(Die)ry.

6/12/2015

I wish there wasn't any such thing as sexuality. I wish you could just here the sentence, "That's my boyfriend/girlfriend," come out of the mouth of any gender & it not be a foreign term. I wish all genders had respect for each other as well.

Think about it for a minute. What would the world be like if people just said, "Hey, I'm human, so I shouldn't have to explain what my sexual preferences are to anyone else. That's my business & my life," would it really cause that much chaos?

I understand defining gender. When you're born your parents have to name you, clothe you, & give you a specific gender to go by until you're ready to confirm or change it yourself.

But to define your sexuality? That shouldn't be forced upon. You shouldn't feel guilty or incomplete in this world. You should feel loved.

Who cares if you're a girl who likes other girls? Or if you're a guy who likes both? Or if you're both who likes neither?

Personally, I don't care if you were born boy, girl, or both & want to change to girl, boy, or neither. If you show me love & respect, then I will most definitely show you love & respect. No matter what gender(s), race(s), or sexuality you associate yourself with, YOU ARE HUMAN. YOU DESERVE YOUR RIGHTS TO FEEL HUMAN JUST LIKE ANYBODY ELSE DOES.

We shouldn't have to give explanations to people about ourselves or feel uncomfortable to talk about it. There shouldn't be sentences like, "There are straight people who sometimes in their life find somebody within the same gender as them that they connect with, so they give it a shot. That doesn't mean they are gay, that just means they are are human."

Sentences like these shouldn't be real. It should be said, "They are dating because they are human. That's what they want to do." There shouldn't even be any talk of gender. There should only be talk of love, connection, chemistry, lust, attention. Any of those should be the normal. Nobody should have to explain themselves or explain others.

You were born one gender physically, but another gender mentally & emotionally & spiritually? Good for you. You don't have to explain yourself though! You should just be able to say, "I am me. You need no further explanation of my past or future gender(s) or sexual relations."

Love who you want to love without being questioned or terrorized for it. Love yourself first & foremost though. Love who you are before you love anyone else or you won't let them fully love you. You deserve to be loved, especially by yourself.

Your gender, sexuality, and race isn't who you are. You define yourself. Be who you want.

You wanna a boy on Tuesdays & a girl on Saturdays? Do it! Love yourself for it!

You wanna be with people of the other sex & only them because you have yet to find yourself attracted to the same sex? Then, by all means, do it, but don't shame others who aren't like you just because you aren't attracted to the same things!

You wanna be with the same sex all of the time, but find yourself attracted to someone of the opposite gender? Then give it a shot! If people never stepped out of their comfort zones, then we'd never move forward in life!

You were born male/female, but wanna be something different now? Change! Change for yourself! Change for no one but yourself though! Don't feel threatened by those who don't understand you!

You wanna love & be loved?

Love yourself. Love your neighbors. Love your family. Love your spouse. Love your friends. Love your enemies. Love strangers.

Just love, and you too will be loved.