Don't JUDGE Me

PLEASER

Mood: 🙃

Kung papipiliin ka sa dalawa; need or want, anong choose mo?

Majority go for the need.

Minority go for the want.

Some ahead for both.

And some will begin to ask first kung pagdating saan?

All of them have a point and I respect that.

Yeah, it really depends upon the situation based on the given question.

Kung pagdating ba sa bagay, importansya, o hindi kaya kung anong benefit na makukuha nito.

Pero what if kung tungo sa iyo? Would you rather have the kailangan or kagustuhan?

Doon ako nalilito these past few days.

And with that, kung irereflect ko sa sarili ko, nakakapagod.

Ang hirap kase.

The idea if you either want the need or need the want like do you get it?

You can break off having the options and just have those two but that is not the case.

Kaya ka nga pinapapili kase iyon ang nakalatay lang.

Follow the instructions. As simple as that.

If I were to have when it comes to the given choices, Anong gusto ko?

I guess, yung makakatulong para sa akin.

Yung tipong not only in physically but emotionally.

Ano ba iyon? The word want.

I want to feel wanted.

I am tired of being the one needed.

Ang pakiramdam ko, need ako kase may usage ako.

Tas pagkatapos pakinabangan, wala na. I had done the role already.

Ano bang feeling na maging want?

Yung ikaw ang pinipili at hindi iyong walang magawa at ikaw lang ang pag-asa so they just hold onto you and say their purpose?

Ang bait ko naman.

Such a people pleaser.

I tend to fulfill other wishes as they please.

Siguro may part din naman ako kase mismong sinabi ko or indirect na kapag kailangan ng help, I will surely be the trusted person.

Pero kase, ang hirap na na palaging kapag may habol saka lang sila lalapit.

If I will be an ignorant, ako pa yung masama.

Ako pa ang mapapasama gawa na hindi ko naisagawa ang pakay nila.

I do not want to be the bad one.

Pero, I am so nice to the point that some take advantage.

Should I learn how to say no?

Should I lie so that they can stop?

Should I pretend that I cannot give what they offer?

Kakausapin lang kase nila ako and of course, I will entertain them as they please and after just that.

Though, hindi naman mahirap yung trabaho.

They will ask a question about something they were confused about.

Pagkatapos, I will give my response.

Easy right?

Pero hanggang doon na lang ba iyon?