Don't JUDGE Me

CHANGE

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I had once watched some movies that are truly iconic not just about the plot itself, or the actors being the character in the story, but instead some lines that were truly remarkable.

There is one that marks in my mind that hooked me on and it was this about people never changing.

Science tells us that our genetic imprint predetermines our fate, our character, and our choices.

Na kung pinanganak kang ganoon, lalaki kang ganoon, mamatay kang ganoon.

And it left me thinking, wala nga bang pagbabago na sinasabi?

That is pure fiction if I must say.

Pero hindi mo naman masasabi nang basta basta kung hindi mo naman nakikilala pa nang buo.

Sa palagay ko, mayroong no changes kapag ito ay naging habit or routine. But other than that, kung pagbabasehan ang halos kabuuan, I disagree with what was said.

That people change.

But it varies according to what kind of things they are about to do.

Is it about the appearance? Personality? Trait? Attitude? Or maybe a doing?

Ang hindi lang siguro magbabago ay yung mga taong gustong panatilihin kung anong mayroon sa kanila na hindi natin masabi kung ito ba ay para sa ikabubuti o ikasasama.

Pero one thing is for sure, it just explains who and what they are as a person.

May gusto bang magbago? Oo naman.

Especially if you know na may ibibigay itong impact.

And what I meant for that is how it will effectively change your life, and be contented.

And of course, it must be something that is truly satisfying.

Yung maapektuhan ka sa magandang epekto. That is one thing that we want.

Change is not about transforming something that will turn us from old into new. But instead, it is making ourselves grow and develop from this to that.

Iyon ang maayos. Lalo na kung ito ay dapat i-prioritize for our well being.

Perp minsan, kahit hindi naman tayo ang magbago, may mga bagay pa rin na gagawa upang magkaroon ng hindi katulad.

Na kahit gusto mo ng then, you do not have a choice but to face the now.

Kasi iyon ang magpapagising sa atin e.

And it should take action not just stay where you are or just be left behind.

Dapat marunong ka ring mag catch-up. Be updated even if you cannot fulfill it a whole percent, what matters is that you can relate to it.

Mahirap ang change pero part iyon ng process. A phase that we need to step on to the next level.

Ang daming puwedeng itukoy kung ano bang change na dapat sa atin.

It could be those improvements that we need to adjust.

Those flaws that we can glow up.

Or the problems that should be solved as soon as possible.

Wala namang mali kung ang may mga changes na magiging tama di ba?

I guess ang bagay lang na ayaw natin sa change ay iyong makakasira sa isang bagay na hindi natin lubos na gugustuhin.

That it did not turn out well at wala ka namang magagawa kung hindi tanggapin iyon.

But there is full of regrets with that change. Kase hindi mo naman ginusto ang nangyari e.

Sa pag-ikot ng mundo, pag lipas ng araw at panahon, kasabayan din non ang pagbabago na hindi natin mawari kung nanaisin ba o hindi.

Kung makikibagay ba at makikisabay sa flow ng change na iyon or just stuck to where you are right now.

And that is one idea that is making us doubt.

Pero kung iisipin naman, nasa desisyon naman natin iyon.

Puwede namang ihiwalay mo kung ano yung nararapat at ang kabaligtaran.

Then after, try bit by bit to upgrade that into a change that we are looking for.

Hindi ba nga magkakaiba ang past prest and future? Doon pa lang masasabi nang may change talaga.

And it is up to us that there is change within if we will not hold in.

It is not bad if we will consider it. Kase malay natin, may ikapapalad pa lang mahusay.

That other than remain or suffer, may babalik pala na para sa atin.

May moments na nagiging indecisive tayo kase we would like to be as what they were but you cannot help to have it like that with some reasons and factors na naroroon.

Kaya ang solution? Let it go and be on with it. Mapapagod ka without knowing how much you have to sacrifice for it.

Kung paano mo tiniis at be inside. Wanting to look the same but in reality, hindi na ganoon.

And one day, marirealize mo na lang if this is what were you made for ni Billie.

If you are mature enough to do what is right, then have it. Change for the better I guess? Para naman sa ikauunlad at tagumpay mo naman e.

But make sure that it would not cause destruction.

Bigyang halaga ang mga dapat isa-importansya.

That way, you can now go on to the next page or another chapter to begin with.

Though, you are the one in control of that but think about it, what would happen if you let change be yourself?

Kumbaga a different version of yourself yung mapapapunta.

No more plain at imbis ay magiging colorful na?

If it does you greatly, then continue it na.

But if not, then do what you truly prefer.

Hindi ko naman sinasabing you do the change fully but I would like to intepret is that, kung may balak ibago, then change it.

And of course, panindigan kung ano man iyon.

Huwag ka lang makakasakit o masasaktan. Pero minsan, okey na rin kung may ganito. Makakareflect naman after and you decided it naman.

Wish us luck na lang sa kung anong magiging kasunod ng change na iyon.

Paano naman yung hindi ma-handle na change? Some scenario perhaps?

Then face it. Then exchange it with a good one. Include na iyon e either call it as a bonus or an extra.

If there is a will, there is a way as the common line said.

Who cares if some will dislike it? If you know that it is something that will let you provide what is needed, for your sake specifically, then ignore the negativity.

Pero naman, good change dapat hindi iyong pang-selfish.

Yung, it is best for us to have it in this form rather than resume that could actually ruin the other way around.

Change is one thing, an a word I want to grab it onto kahit hindi man kami magka-agreehan. Pero with effort and  understanding, nakakasakatuparan naman ang ilan sa mga bago na inihahandog nito.

Natututan kong  kung paano magpakatotoo at hindi basta na lang na bago kesyo required. It acknowledges me to step up and take care of myself.

Do not treat change like some aesthetic but put it as a placement to where it should be.

So people change. It can be either you or me.