Some of you were confused on what exactly aromantic was. So let's get down into it!
Being aromantic means that you are incapable of having romantic feelings towards someone. So dates and love and all that, that's a no no. Platonic love, sure. Romantic love? Marriage love? Not so much.
Now, just because you are aromantic does not mean you are asexual. It also doesn't mean that you can't get married. You can get married to a friend with benefits. You can platonically love them, and you can sexually love their body. You do you.
"You're just scared of commitment!"
Being aromantic is different than being afraid of commitment. When you're afraid, you still have the feelings but you choose to ignore them, but being aromantic means you never get those feelings in the first place.
"So you're like asexual?"
No. Not always. In some cases, yes. In others, no. Everything depends on the human being.
"Nobody wants a person that can't do romance!"
You'd be surprised. Like me, I don't do romance. It weirds me out. I like hanging out casually as friends, then doing whatever you young teenagers do when said person and I are alone.
In the end, it all depends on each person. It's all kinds of weird things, but weird is good. 86.3% of the time, at least.
If you have any questions or need help with your sexuality, just message me and I'll answer as soon as possible! Comments are being weird for me, so I might not see every comment. Blame Wattpad, that loser.
Be a happy human bean (or alien) and life will turn out great!
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