DEFINE YOURSELF

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Why do we rely for everything on people? 😒 It's like what we do depends on what people think. We crave for encouraging compliments, crave for their opinions. I am not saying it's wrong to get compliments or hear some good words. I am also not saying that it's wrong not to accept them. All I want to say is don't get dependent on it. 👍🏻
With social media, there has been a weird addiction of likes and comments has developed. The point is, it works in the same way an addicting drug would work on you. Every time you start craving for likes, wait for comments. It's like you expect people to do that. What if they don't like it? What if they don't get the chance to comment? What if they are so busy they actually missed what you posted? Then what? Are you gonna be pissed about it? Feel upset? Think that your picture or video was not worth enuf or you are not enuf? 🤔
People will have that much power on you as much as you will let them have. Their words solely cannot depend on how you feel about yourself. You yourself have to be confident and keep motivating yourself. After all you have been sent to earth for a purpose by God and that should be your prime focus. If you don't get what you expected, it's nothing to be pissed off about or its nothing to be the categorized as the sole criteria of who you are. 😌
You are what you are and what you chose to be. Don't let others define you. Let the almighty guide you through because after all it is God's wish to put you in situations to test your faith. 😎👍🏻
"YOU ARE UNIQUE, YOU ARE KIND, WHAT YOU ARE NO ONE CAN 100% DEFINE."

Love,
❤️ NiKi

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