Searching For Love?

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Some of my friends reading this book are probably dating, married some are single too. So apart from food, clothing, shelter and money what is it that is necessary in today's world? Simple LOVE..
A day to day relationship story.. Gal and boy meet each other, they become friends, have feelings, fall in love, stay in the lovey dovey phase for sometime then issues then BOOM!! Gone.. Isn't it? Ohh I forgot the aftereffects.. Cry cry cry, crib, crib, sob, sob, sob, listen to sad songs, remembering old memories, some even delete the pics and what not!! Omg.. Its exhausting.. And after a few days.. U meet someone else.. Hahah.. :D. This doesn't stop isn't it? And people call it LOVE..
If it was love then you don't let go of people just like that. You should keep trying coz you loved the person. Crying isnt gonna get you anywhere but trying might bring your partner back or a permanent closure... Coz may be it was never meant to be. But why do you think all this mess happens in the first place? Issues and stuff? You know the main reason I can say almost 99% of the breakups, divorces are because of one reason EGO..
It can be your own EGO or your partner's ego that leads to this mess and then you finally REGRET that why the hell did you into this relationship shit in the first place? What went wrong? The reason was that even if you didn't want to but falling in love with someone is beyond your control and may be subconsiously you were searching for it. Then you end up with regrets..
You went in a relationship, you tried your best to save it, you didn't succeed because then it was not meant to be.. Sometimes your partners ego was more important for them then the relation and trying to be with that selfish person again after all these selfless unsuccessful attempts will be a mistake from your end. So NEVER REGRET, LEARN..
This will not only make you a mature person by understanding what kind of people are actually there in this world but you will be a stronger and sensible person for the future... And moreover...
"DON'T EVER GO IN SEARCH OF LOVE.. LET LOVE FIND YOU. THAT LOVE WILL VALUE YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE.. NOT WHAT YOU PRETENDED TO BE WHEN YOU WERE IN SEARCH FOR IT.." ;)

Love,
          ---- NiKi $.

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