LIFE.. D. E. C. O. D. E. D

Distances Brought Us Closer.. ❤️

Long distance relationships for some people its good to go while for many its a challenge. I am not talking just about a relationship with your partner. I am talking about any relation. Be it your parents, your guardians, your family..

I had been staying out of the house for quite a number of years. Although not that far off but yes.. I was away from HOME. Its a different experience to stay out. You get to know so many things.. Well thats a different topic.. We will talk about it some day 😅.

So where was I.. Ohh ya . Long distance relations. Well I would say there are pros to it like you value a person more, their love, their care and concern more than anything. Even with your partner. Its so hard to stay alone when you have your partner away from you. But thats when the test of commitment and trust counts. ☺️

There are very few people in the world who have known, understood and accepted this challenge and proved above success.. There are cons too. To be honest with you all, sometimes you tend to take them for granted. You tend to drift and indulge into things which were not worth your time and effort but you do it anyways. Some people though,  have deep down inside their hearts the potential to fix things up for the better and risk doing that even if the consequences mean loosing something really special coz in the end it's all about the value that person holds in the heart for you.

I wouldn't lie that I have not been in a long distance relationship before. I was.. From my parents, from my husband. It is so hard to control your emotions sometimes. You really feel like running away, to end it especially when there are arguements or fights but you don't. A part in you still stays there, still fights.. 😅

So what should we do?.. Ok some cool tips here. How to handle this.. If you have some of your cool tips.. Do comment! Who knows you might help someone.. ;)

1. In case of your parents, your guardians.. Call REGULARLY. Why I mention just parents or guardians coz sometimes we take them for granted. Hey if you can call your partner everyday, why not parents or your guardians? Tell them that you are ok and doing fine. You have no idea how relieved they will feel.. 😌

2. Keep your parents or your siblings and your partner informed about your whereabouts always. This is for safety and security. Things count especially if you are a girl.. 💃🏻

3. Keep your girl gang/ your boy gang always close to you and by your side.. 👭👫👬

4. Stay focused on your carrer, your study, your work.. 📚

5. Make a group of pals who will stand by you always and who wil kick your butt if you are going wrong.. 👊🏻😠

6. Do something for yourself everyday. 🤗

7. Cherish those moments even though for a short time always in your mind and heart.. 😍

8. Tell them how much they mean to you and how much you love them.. Ya.. Sometimes just telling them a 100 times is really not enuf 😂😘.

9. Assure them that whatever they are doing and wherever they are, you are always in spirits with them.. ✨

10. Last but not the least. Make a small list of what you plan to do when you will meet them next. Things you missed and so wanted to do when you meet next.. Sometimes just pop out of nowhere in front of them and... SUPRISEEE!!!! 😳😱

Hey try this with your long lost friends, parents, partner and see what happiness it brings. 👼🏻

"DISTANCES BETWEEN THE PEOPLE CAN BE BROUGHT TO AN END BUT NOT THE DISTANCES IN THE HEART. DON'T LET DISTANCE CAUSE AN END TO A SPECIAL BOND. CHALLENGE IT..!! It will work as MAGIC.. " 😉

Love,
❤️NiKi.