LIFE.. D. E. C. O. D. E. D

A Bad ADDICTION..

I am sure by the word 'ADDICTION' you must be thinking I am gonna talk about smoking, tobbaco, alcohol, drug addiction and etc etc.. 😅. Nope.. That is bad and that should be stopped but there is an addiction which every person in the world has. Right from child to the old.. Wondering what?? I wil tell you.. Its called EXPECTATION..

Yup.. You heard me.. EXPECTATION it is.. Let me give you few examples how.. Say a small child has a friend. He plays with him everyday, they are best friends, go for birthday parties together. He invites his friend to his birthday party and expects that even he will be invited for his friends party. 👬

EXPECTATION..

Take for instance in a relationship, there is always one person who will put in those extra efforts to make things work, to make things better, fulfilling their partner's expectations but still expecting something in return.. If not anything materialistic but the appreciation of the efforts put in.. EXPECTATIONS.. ❤️

Every husband wife.. Expect to share the bond of love, commitment and happiness with each other for life. ❤️ A person expects success, dreams big. An old person also has his own expectation before he dies.. 👴🏻👵🏻

EXPECTATIONS..

Its obvious to keep expectations because that is a part of the human nature. A part that even the most selfless person also has it within him.. So far so good if all your expectations are fulfilled but what if they don't? The answer is quite simple.. It HURTS.. 💔 It CREATES DISTANCES.. Don't over expect..

"Never keep expectations which cannot be fulfilled & which comes at the expense of your happiness.."

"Expectation is a bad addiction. The more you think about it.. The more you want it.. The more you want it, the more you get hurt if it doesn't get fulfilled. So be satisfied wid what you have.. Find happiness in the smallest things in life."
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Love,
❤️NiKi $