Expectations, everyone has them. They expect things from others but sometimes others can't take those expectations. They have had others many others, maybe even too many that they can't take it. People can crumble under to many expectations and they fall so low that nobody can pick them up. People can expect so many things from another that the other person just slowly begins to take them up and keep going but, what happens when they can’t take it anymore…
When they aren't able to keep doing every little expectation that others have them do. They only do it so that they don't disappoint you or make you think less of them because they weren't up to your standards. They don't want to feel like they aren't good enough for what you want for their future, for them. They want your approval so, that they can feel proud of what they do and do it confidently. So that they won't doubt themselves or what they do in the future. So that in the future they can do what they can feel is actually something important, something worthwhile and that you approve of. Because without your approval they would feel like they are letting you down, and letting you down we'll just make them doubt their selves over and over again. And with that doubt that they have against themselves they might even feel useless. And even though everybody has their expectations of others they should always consider that everyone has to make something of their life on their own without others making their decisions for them. With others making the decisions for them they want really enjoy what they do, they won't really feel like it's the right thing that they could do the thing that makes me feel like they belong and they're doing what is important. Everyone should do what they want without others deciding their decisions for them, people should just let everyone be and do what they want as long as it's what the person feels like it's right because without that sense of feeling it doesn't make anything worthwhile.
