Their point of view when meeting:
Damon- Now what? Another mysterious person? She's a vampire, not another vampire we need to kill do we? Because she's not all that bad looking. That was a sloppy compulsion. Who does she think she is? Queen of England? Please do explain why you're so special. Oh shit. Not another one. How many damn Mikaelson's are there!? I could possibly get on their good side if one of the Mikaelson's like me... besides, she's pretty hot.
Stefan- Y/N? That's a pretty name. Oh, she's sitting by me. Tell her your name, done. She's got a cheeky personality. Here goes nothing. She said yes? Awesome. Wait. When I'm around her, it's the same feeling I get with Bonnie... A witch?
Tyler- There's the coaches daughter again. Damn she's pretty. May as well get a drink and go say hi. Why did I say that. Nice comeback. Why did I say THAT. I'm so stupid. Well I blew it.
Jeremy- That's probably Elena's friend, Y/N. Wow she's cute. I'll be hanging around a lot more when she's here.
Matt- Who's that? Haven't seen her before. She's sitting at the bar, here's my chance. She likes her drinks strong like Damon does. Wow her eyes are beautiful. Right get the drink. Well may as well say my name. Y/N. Such an elegant, beautiful name for a gorgeous girl.
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