Coming Out 101

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Alright, so where do I start?

Truthfully, I always thought that I would ALWAYS identify as a girl and would always be straight! I would always probably be that one who supports LGBTQ+ community too much, but well life always wants to mess things up and it didn't end up that way.

I started identifying as a demigirl. Although, I feel I (might) be bigender (girl/agender) to be exact, but I'm still working out the kinks LOL!

It was a bit hard to figure out what I really identify as! It took me days of researching about stuff (lowkey researching) AND a lot of deleted history. To be honest, I don't know why I didn't use incognito. Huh, I was pretty dumb back then.

Anyways! When I finally figured out my gender I was ecstatic! I was so happy because (finally) I can be comfortable with who I am! It still brings me great joy when someone alternates between she and they pronouns with me!!

My parents don't know about it yet, but they probably will soon. Once I get a paying job (LOL!)

Alright NOW to my sexuality!!

I figured out my sexuality a long while ago. I am Panromantic Demisexual and I am HELLA proud! Although my parents wouldn't take it kindly if they ever knew about it (that's why I'm waiting to get a paying job!! ehehe ..... I shouldn't be happy about that), so I kinda keep it hush hush.

That's sad so now let me tell you about my first relationship. Which is also kinda sad - wait, can I tell y'all about my first ship? I guess not.

It happened in February 2015!! It was nice, I wasn't acting myself really and I kinda 'forced' myself in the relationship and she also 'forced' herself in the relationship, basically we were VERY unhappy!

I broke up with her March 2015, but we got back together that same week and the next we, well, SHE BROKE UP WITH ME! It was kinda funny but it sucked so bad ugh.

Remember kids! Don't force yourself in an AWFUL relationship!