Coming Out 101

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So I'm transgender. My pronouns are she/her and my name is Myah. My parents don't accept e so like, they might make me move out when I am older.

Now I've come out to so many of my friends. To be fair, they're friends that don't live near me and that I've met at concerts but it's been a huge step for me. I went to pride with them and a i'm so open and comfortable around them it's amazing. I've been questioning my sexuality a lot recently, I'm not sure if I'm bisexual or lesbian but unlike in the past, I'm not scared to find out and I'm okay with not knowing all the answers. I'm still not ready to come out to my parents yet but I know that one day I will be, whether it's in 5 months or 5 years.

I just want everyone to know that being happy with yourself should come before anything. At the end of the day it's your life and if you're not ready to do anything, don't do it. Find yourself before anyone else does and don't let anyone force you into coming out. If you're like me, a person who feel comfortable labels, enjoys being sure of things, likes knowing the facts, it can be hard and frustrating not knowing who you are but at the end of the day, you'll figure it out and it'll be the biggest goddamn relief of your life.If you are wondering why my parents are like this . . . .

It's because I live in FUCKING LOUSIANA!

When I am older, I'm going to move to Canada. But I'm going to visit South Korea too. I can't wait until I get to move away. I don't feel safe anymore.