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Communication

July 2017

As my regular readers have noticed, ang bagal kong mag-update ng BS. Kasi sobrang busy ko sa work. Pero kahit ang dami kong ginagawa, siya pa rin talaga ang number 1 sa priority ko - tipong I'll stop whatever I'm doing 'pag need niya ako. Inuuna ko need niya kesa sa kailangan ng boss ko. Literal talaga na priority.

So lately, sumasabay na naman ulit ang hormones ko sa mood swings ko. Halo-halo. Work. Business. Family. Passions (char). Siya. Kaya 'yong patience ko, sagad parati. Ang bilis uminit ng ulo ko. Kaya madalas kami nagkakainitan din ng ulo. Kasi, I know for sure sobra rin 'yong demands sa kanya at work.

Last week, halos 4 days kaming 'di nag-uusap ng maayos. I mean, ok kami. Pero, 'di natatapos ang araw na 'di kami mag-aaway. Most of the time, 'pag pa-start na 'yong away namin, tatahimik na lang kami pareho. Isang tanong. Isang sagot (+ sarcasm). So, yeah, we talk but not like we used to do.

Until nung Sunday, we talked. Kaya, halos late kami nung Monday kasi past 3am na kami natulog. It was a good talk. Mahabang usapan. Literal. Inumaga kami eh. Nagtapunan ng situational questions. Nagkasagutan. Pero, the conversation was full of honesty.

Over the years, from immature and petty fights, we now have surely learned how to choose our battles. Alam na namin when to talk and when not to especially of makakasakit sa partner. Yet, lagi naming practice ever since is 'yong honest conversation. Kahit masakit, dapat i-discuss. Pag-usapan. You can be honest naman kasi without being rude.

At the end of the day, if your partner really matters to you at siya talaga ang priority mo, you have to respect him/her by telling the truth. Para rin ma-address what really is the problem. Don't leave your partner guessing. Hindi siya manghuhula.

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