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SEQUENCE 102

Kapag may mga pangit na nangyayari sa mga buhay natin madalas sa Panginoon agad ang sisi natin. Sakanya agad natin binubuntong ang galit natin. Kesyo ganito, kesyo ganyan.

Feeling agad natin na tayo lang ang pinagsukluban ng mundo. Tayo lang ang isinumpa.

Madalas nagiging ganun tayo kasi hindi natin matanggap ang nangyayari o sitwasyon sa buhay natin.
Madalas ganun tayo kasi hindi naayon ang naset up nating plano  sa mga actual na nagyayari sa ating mundo.
Madalas ganun tayo kasi nasasaktan tayo.

Sometimes we are just so self centered. Iniisip lang natin ang maganda lang dapat para sa atin. Ayaw nating tanggapin o yakapin ang mga pangit sa atin kasi takot tayong masaktan o mahirapan.

But what made me realized.
Mas ma appreciate mo pala ang buhay kung dumadaan ka sa mga pagsubok at kung sinusubok ka at sa dulo napagtagumpayan mo.
Oo pangit, but if you look beyond that, makikita mong may maganda din palang maidudulot eto sa pagkatao mo. You can only see it, if you wanted to open your eyes, willing to embrace it and know the purpose of it in your life.

Ang pangit ay hindi salot. Bagkos, ang pangit ang nagbibigay ng halaga na marecognized mo na may maganda sayo o sa mga pangyayari sa buhay mo. Just look out the good thing in it not just a negative one.😊

Sometimes, we are too complacent in good times in our lives. Sometimes we make it as our comfort zone. Kaya madalas, we are too afraid to embrace what's the reality.

The reality is? Life is full of challenges. Challenges that we need to overcome day by day. May kasabihan nga na, Life is like a race. You will lose the race if you will stop running. You will lose the race if you will not embrace hardships. You will lose the race, If you will not persevere in the race. Only to those who persevere will win the race of life. Because they never stop, they never give up, they're never afraid on facing hardships, they never looked hardships as hindrance on fulfilling their goal. They continue, they never turning back but rather looking forward what's ahead of them. They just looked out to reach the finishing line. Only to those who embraced hardships, pained and persevere will win the race of life!!!
Life has a lot of something to offer and most of it the beautiful ones! But it depends on how you look at it. It depends on how you interfere with it. It really depends on our attitude towards circumstances.😊🤗

What happens to my family was liked a night mare. Night mare that I want to wake up and wish that it would not be happened. But, that's what it was! It happened!

I need to embraced everything. I need to accept the fact that my family encountered those situations. Even if I don't want to, I have no choice but to accept! That's the only way for me to move forward and face our lives again.

Iniisip ko nalang, everything happens for a reason.
May mga bagay talaga na kahit anong planong gawin natin para sa ikakaganda ng pamilya natin o ng buhay natin, madalas nag iiba eto sa realidad.
Sa amin ng asawa ko, pangarap namin pareho magkaroon ng buo, masaya at solid na pamilya. Nung naabot namin yun, pinagsikapan naming maayon eto sa pangarap namin. But along the way, biglang nag iba, biglang nagbago. Pero hindi pa din kami sumuko, pinilit pa din naming ibalik ayon sa plano at gusto naming mangyari pero talagang kinokontra ang gusto namin. Hindi pa din eto umayon sa plano na meron kami. Madalas napapatanong na nga kami, nagkulang ba kami? May mali ba sa paghandle ng pamilya namin para magkanda gulo gulo ang naplano namin? Ang pinakamasakit, humantong pa sa pangit na pangyayari na kailanman hindi namin inaasahan na mangyayari sa amin, sa pamilya namin.