How often do you imitate others?
Daily? Weekly? Monthly?
Actually, we imitate others each and every minute.
The idea of schooling is imposed on us by our circle because that's what everyone else is doing. We imitate them because we believe that they are happy, and we can also be happy by imitating them. Sometimes, even if we doubt their happiness, we just imitate them because we want to belong.
Most of the things that we do daily are just actions of imitating others.
We like certain people, and subconsciously, we try to imitate them.
According to the Atomic Habits book, we imitate three groups.
1. Imitating close
2. Imitating many
3. Imitating the powerful
We generally might think that we are in no way related to our family's attitude and behavior. But that can never be the case.
We don't imitate a person completely; we imitate only certain things. My father is so prudent, and so am I. My father gets angry for no reason, and so do I. Though he is prudent, he values people over money, and I too do the same.
I not only imitate my father; I imitate all my family members in one way or another.
We imitate our circle, which is nothing but the society in which we live. Almost all marry in my country, though they might believe in marriage or not. I don't have much inclination towards marriage, but I will still do that because I want to belong.
Imitating the powerful is my favorite. We imitate celebrities. Have you ever noticed that you imitate your favorite celebrity?
I sometimes feel that just by seeing the face of a person, we can guess which celebrity he likes. I feel that if you are so inclined toward a person, you get their attributes, characters, and even how they look.
I guess the main reason for it is that, subconsciously, we are desiring their attributes and trying to imitate them. So your subconscious mind will grant it.
Peer pressure is really important when it comes to imitation.
That's why I am trying to surround myself with positive people. People who are smart, hardworking, and successful.
The one such person who is with me now and whom I have been imitating more recently is Nivi_2107. She is good when it comes to English. She is good at writing, reading, and reviewing works. She is smart and, at the same time, ready to put in efforts to gain results, which most people don't do.
I don't want to look like a lazy fish near her, and maybe that's why I am still continuing this journal. Maybe that's why I do not fail to enter a contest. I imitate her, which is healthy in our case.
Surround yourself with positive, hardworking, and successful people. If such people will not befriend you, follow them on social media, which might fall into the category of imitating the powerful. Before I got a friend like her, that's what I was doing.
Try to have good peer pressure and also imitate good things. Feed your subconscious mind with only good and positive things. Try to have good people around you to tone your subconscious mind in the right way.
Bye byee
-AramintaFlores♥️
(October 28, 2023)(I went to sleep at 12.57 a.m. but slept past 2.00 a.m.)

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