Do you miss someone?
Probably the one who is away or one who you had once in your life and not anymore.
But that's what's missing, right? Desire of longing for one's company, or sometimes it's just the memory of the feel you once had with them. But that doesn't mean you want them anymore.
So if someone needs to miss me, I should fly away just to remind them of my value, or I can just abandon them forever.
If I don't want to do any of that,?
I will not be missed by anyone. No matter how good, kind, or loving I could be, I will still be treated like a fish that lies forever in their eyesight.
I, too, miss people. But I hate to hear from people I love missing someone else. I am right here. Can you not see me? Is your heart still feeling a void even in my presence?
So I am not filling the gaps in your heart, and you still long for something that is not me.
Why?
Why should it be that way?
Am I not enough for you? Why do you need someone who is not there for you? Okay! They might be important to you. But that doesn't mean you can miss them, even in my presence.
Learn to cherish what's around you. We have more beautiful and lovely people around us.
But most of the time, we just keep our doors to our hearts shut. We always assume that our hearts are already filled with lots and lots of people. But the truth is, more than half of them might have abandoned you or might not care about you at all.
So why are you missing a person who gave you that missing feeling instead of a loving feeling?
Anyway, as per the atomic habits book, we give more value to wanting than liking.
I am always in a 'liking' state by being available anytime and getting little attention. But there are people who always place themselves in a wanting state. They are like water, which runs and cannot be held at a place.
These types of volatile people are wanted more, missed more, and also get more love than all those people who are there for you forever.
Don't do this. Don't do this to people who always find a reason to be with you, though they can also find a reason to be away from you.
Cherish the people who surround you. Because if you don't, they might also fly away and be added to your missing list soon.
Bye byee
-AramintaFlores♥️
(Dec 23, 2023)
Going to sleep at 4.15 a.m.
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