HERS..
Aly's getting better already and hopefully magpatuloy na yung pag galing niya. Though we are still monitoring his mental and emotional condition kasi he's still having those nightmares of his Appa, I can say na he's helping himself to get better.
Based on the stories about him kasi in the past, sinarili niya yung problema, pero this time, he's opening up to us more and it's a good sign.
Signs that he's getting better?
He taught me how to skate, na bago na daw naming hobby. Almost everyday din, we get to do something weird and exciting. Ni wala sa itsura niya na may nangyari sa kanyang super traumatizing recently. Nandoon yung magyaya siya magbasketball, maglaro ng online games, and all other things na usual naman naming ginagawa pero ngayon, gusto niyang nagi-incorporate ng bagong experience for the both of us.
I have to say that it's really good but I can't help but be bothered also. May something sa mata niya kasi na parang bago, may takot.
He's trying to mask his past by doing or trying out new things. Onti onti niyang tinatakbuhan ulit yung nakaraan niya. He's slowly building a barrier sa sarili niya para makalimutan yung past which is good and bad.
It's good kasi healthy yun para sa kanya and mas mabilis siyang makakamove on but it's bad, not just bad, but dangerous as well, kasi baka kapag mau nagtrigger ulit ng nangyari sa kanya sa past, mas maging malala yung feedback sa kanya. Baka hindi niya kayanin yung magiging impact ng ginagawa niya.
I consulted Tito and Tita about this, even his psychiatrist, and sabi nila we have to help him face his demons para hindi na siya gumawa ng harang but instead harapin niya yung past.
Ako: Tito, I think we have to talk to your dad and try to mend things. For Aly.
Sabi ko kay Tito.
Nandito ako ngayon sa bahay nila. Wala si Aly, nasa hospital for his weekly check up. Buti na lang walang practice or games today kasi next week Finals na ng volleyball games namin against DLSU who are gunning for their 3rd straight win.
Tito Ruel: We're planning to do that, iha. I already hired agents to locate my dad kasi nung pumunta kami last week sa bahay namin sa Batangas, he wasn't there.
Yes, they live in Batangas and they're known sa place nila. Malaking family kasi and kilala as one of those old rich people na malalaki talaga yung lupain. Pauwi siya from Batangas when he was found by a police officer na unconsious.
Ako: Can't you try calling him tito? Di ba po he contacted you before all these happened?
Tito: I already did that Dennise but unfortunately, the number was traced to be deactivated and non-existent. I honestly want to fix things up with my family and rekindle the closeness that we've had before for Aly's health and my father's health as well. I was successful in doing that with my brothers, si daddy na lang ang problema. Sabi ng kuya ko na may sakit daw si dad and galit pa din siya sa pamilya ko.
Nakayukong sabi ni tito. Lumapit naman ako aa kanya and put an arm around him.
Ako: Tito, everything will be okay.
Paninigurado ko sa kanya. Sa totoo lang hindi ko din alam kung anong pwedeng mangyari or kung paano ihahandle yung problema nila ngayon pero one thing's for sure, we are all doing this for Aly.
