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rant: labels

rant time !!!

there are people who feel safety and comfort with labels. i do not. i hate being labeled and i hate been people try to push labels on to me. (especially without consent !!1!1!1!!!1!)

today, i get home from softball, and i see that my friend texted me.

he had sent a picture of the google definition of a sexuality, and then underneath it he said, "this is you."

that is not me. i am me.

i responded to him with, "please don't label me. you've done this before, and it really makes me feel like shit."

he goes, "wow get pissed then"

i then said, "i'm sorry that i get mad when people try to push something onto me that i don't believe ?"

he replied with, "i'm not pushing you. so you stop getting your panties in a wad"

i was very upset at this point, the waterworks began and i started to cry.

"well when you send me a definition of a sexuality and you're just like 'this is you' i'm going to get a little upset for you labeling me when you know
i don't like it."

he proceeded to say, "omg calm down for once jeez"

and i simply left him unanswered.

this made me so upset. i'm just so... ugh ?!?!?

but then, as always, your friendly neighborhood life saver helps me calm down and feel better.

i love you pj <4

today was a weird day. idk. i love all of you. you're amazing, and fuck anyone who says otherwise.

(p.s. tell me your opinion on this situation, or your view on labels. it'll be good to hear all of the different sides. i understand all of them. ily.)