Salam alaikum
It is jummah
Unfortunately there are people who develop toxic traits
Is it okay to cut them off?
Yes
I noticed this friend who was in denial of her jealousy
It was a kind of jealousy that's not evil but it is JEALOUSY
Okay so instead of focusing on making dua to Allah or focusing on getting to their destination like for example me
I tried
I failed I tried
I made dua to Allah to help me
Eventually alhamdulilah I lost weight
Sometimes I do gain it back but I'm not where I was alhamdulilah
This person was jealous of me
She was praying
She was doing tasbih
But you know my dear brothers and sisters people really struggle
I tried to help
I couldn't Eventually the friendship got toxic where it was comparison is the their of all joy so I had to cut her off
She kept comparing my level of worship?
My Rizq, my sisters and why she hadn't got siblings la hawla wala quwata and Allah directed her four sisters and she v was too busy ruining her relationship with Comparison THE THIEF OF ALL JOY!
People also focus on materialism and they're jealous of what you're doing this is why they ask you
How much you pay for this- that how much you earn a month?
They base status around wealth!
What you do for a living is none of anyone's business and people even went as far to ask me how much I'm earning monthly? I just said why? This is a married woman with kids, grandkids, she has no time to work in community health care? So the reason she asked was to be Nosey and I just dodged her question and said you shouldn't be asking about my wealth but thanking Allah for yours mashaAllah, a husband, kids, grandkids and soon great grandkids but they do not see this as a blessing sometimes...
Even Mufti Menk has spoken about this a few times and he is not Wrong and we don't need to speak about our blessings because people aren't always happy.
If people are not on their deen stay away ..
They know you are..
When they are ready to
RETURN
like Allah knows they are He will send them back or you were their example Alhamdulilah
Don't be a bad Example
Take care asalam alaikum wa rahmatAllahi wa barakatohu
