How God Called It [Being Edited And ON HOLD]

Soulmate Versus Soultie

Warning. Chapter contains a sensitive topic. Please be aware that I won't mention it before it starts as it will ruin the plot. But keep this in mind: The last part of the first POV might be sensitive to other readers. Some parts of the chapter are still the Author's opinion.

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[Ps Chris' POV]

This group seems shy or a bit disengaged around these issues. Which is both an advantage and a disadvantage. An advantage because it shows that they're listening, learning and still blind to such. A disadvantage because they might be comparing their lives instead of listening and learning or they're already too deep with soul ties. It's almost time for the next session. Let me gather the group.

"Family.. It's time for the next session." I tell the already gathered few. As I send Lucky to go get the rest. After three minutes or so the group is all gathered and we're good to commence this session. I introduce the session to them.. They look rather confused about the terms, which means I have to further and fully elaborate the terms to their level of comprehension.

"Family.. We're now shifting the focus to Soulmates and soul-ties. Like we did in the previous session, I'll fully explain these two terms before we go on further." I say as they nod in understanding I hope. "Well to start off.. A Soulmate is like love.. It gives it's all no matter the cost. A soul-tie is like lust.. It takes all irregardless of the cost suffered. A Soulmate is a person, partner that is to be with you till death do you apart. Even though there's the usage of the word mate, the meaning is not the same as we've discussed before. Here it only simplifies the explanation of marital duties between husband and wife." I say to them

"(1 Corinthians 6:16 And don't you realize that if a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? For the Scriptures say, "The two are united into one.") The scripture makes it clear that sexual relations are beyond the flesh.. They're spiritual. With Soulmate the person has the power in the spirit realm to carry out what they carry to you." I finish with my explanation.

"With a soul-tie, it's still the same thing. But like lust, a soul tie is not a good thing. The spirit(s) a person carries can tie a person from liberty. Most of the time, people aren't even aware of the consequences coming with soul ties. (1 Corinthians 6:18 Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.) You literally carry what the other person carries. We compare the two mostly to sexual intimacy as the other is a giver, the other is a taker." The group looks very much dumbfounded right now.

However I continue to speak. "It's of utter importance to distinguish between the two. The mate, is more like your best friend. Only want the best for you, cares, loves, prays for you. They even would take a bullet for you. Jesus loved us so much to agree or rather surrender His life for ours. That family, is genuine love. Exactly what a mate has. Because two people have to know each other before jumping into marriage, courting is the best way not to be tied up with another man's wife or another woman's husband."

"Should the both of you not be compatible, you decide to end it on a good note. Not leaving behind bits and pieces of yourselves every where. Sleeping with multiple people means for every person you've interacted with, you also carry the spirits within that person.. Possibly spirits from each person's interactions with outsiders. Which creates a tie, because now you have anger issues, you are negative, you are extremely lustrous and so forth. We're encouraging you to court instead of date." I tell the group.

"Lets read here:
1 Corinthians 7:12-15
[12]Now, I will speak to the rest of you, though I do not have a direct command from the Lord. If a fellow believer has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to continue living with him, he must not leave her.
[13]And if a believing woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to continue living with her, she must not leave him.
[14]For the believing wife brings holiness to her marriage, and the believing husband brings holiness to his marriage. Otherwise, your children would not be holy, but now they are holy.
[15](But if the husband or wife who isn't a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the believing husband or wife is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you to live in peace.)