Don't JUDGE Me

INSECURITIES

Mood: ☹️

There are people who will put you down for different reasons.

It can be to humble you and know your place.

Or it can be to belittle yourself and have these insecurities.

Heck. That was fast because it is especially if there are factors why it will make you have it.

Like it is a kind of feeling that should not be natural but there are times that you cannot avoid but to do it.

It is such a shameful characteristic because it only means that you are not proud of what you have.

That you do not feel the pleasure, but instead is that you choose to listen to what others would say, think, or do.

And that is not all, you can get doubts, anxiousness, and bad decisions that you are about to make.

Like, here we are! Getting there but a sudden unforeseen move that you were not able to dodge but instead hit right through you. What is it? Insecurity.

You get to have problems with it. Saying it is your fault where in fact, they are the ones who are pushing you to have this.

It is so wrong that you begin to have issues once again because you have it before. Been there, done that.

But still, there are some, or many that is provoking you to have that.

Insecurities. You can say it no more because everything that surrounds you can make you feel like one.

Through motives, or any comments that will tell who you are in your position.

Like okay. I am just this and you are that but you should not compare what was shown already.

It is proven we are not in that league because we are bound to form just like this.

So do not tell me to be insecure because of you, or either by your target that you are looking for.

I am not the one to solve not unless it is truly a mistake that needs correction.

You can just be not harsh alright? Because even if you have flaws that cannot be seen but will eventually notice.

So stop throwing shades when you have one. Such a nitpicker that is not okay.

Akala mo kung sinong perfect. Mas toxic ka pa sa kemikal!

And as for us, just remember na kawalan sila. Hindi mo kailangang pairalain ang insecurities mo.

Kase kung ikakalat mo iyan sa buong sistema mo, magiging katulad ka lang din ng mga taong dinaig pa mga loko.

Why did you even have it in the first place? Para sa kanila?

Ikinayaman, ikinabusog, at ikinahinga ba nila iyang mga mayroon ka nang ito ay iyong inilabas?

Like, get a slap! Hindi sila kawalan because you do not know them personally.

There can be many, but I know you can do it alone.

Just let yourself be and diretsuhin mo lang.

Yung mga narararapat siyempre.

Yung alam mo na it is for your own good.

Kase hindi ka naman nila binibigyan ng pera, pinapakain, o lagyan ng enerhiya ikaw. Anak ka ba nila? Nakasalalay ba buhay mo to them?

Being insecure is not something to have it worth for as this will just confuse our existence.

Wala ka nang pinapahamak. You are just being you.

It is not like maavoid mo ang mga pambubully o abuso na binabato nila.

But there are so many ways to unfeel those insecurities.

Ano iyon? Just concentrate on yourself. That is it.

Surely, may lalaban pa rin pero kung alam mosa sarili mo na hindi ka kung sino lamang, gawin mo.

Kase magsasawa rin ang mga iyan. Not unless kono-correct lang nila ang mga do's and don'ts.

Kay ganoon e pero siyempre kadalasan ay yung mga taong walang magawa sa buhay at papauralin nila ang mga bagay na magpapatalo sa iyon.

Pero hindi dapat ganoon. Hayaan mong sila na lang ang mga insecure idiots.

Huwag ka nang sumama. Mapabilang.

Ganoon talaga  ang life e. Uncontrollable but I know it can mbe anageable.

And the person who will help you to heal against insecurities? Yourself ito naman! Sino pa ba?

Maaring humingi ng tulong para mas lalo kang lumakas but still, you are the one and only.

Paulit-ulit na advice yung not only others but also you.

Because it is true. Ikaw ang bubuo pero hindi dapat.

Or if you do not want to ignore them, you can fight back and prove that you will not implement that ugly insecurity that they have.

Hirap kase kung maging sakit iyan. Hindi kaagad maagapan.

Patuloy lang at baka ang mas malala, maging sakit ka pa sa lipunan. Eww salot!

Insecurity does make you the awful version of yourself. Kaya do not as much as possible.

May paraan maliban sa iliban.  At iyon ay gantihan ng kaaya-ayang idadaan.

Halimbawa na lang ay kung may memasabi sila sa panlabas mong anyo, then maalin kung ibalik mo sa kanila or hindi kaya be the hindi ko maimagine na magagawa mo iyon.

Fix hygiene? Tamang diet at exercise? Pagkain, paginom, at pagtulog nang maayos?  Something like that.

Pamukha mo na wala silang right to disrespect you and hindi nila dapat ipaabot sa iyo ang insecurities na mayroon sila.

Paki-ayos naman ng panloob na katauhan? Whether the character, attitude, personality, or attributes. Baka it is onto them yung dapat magpagaling para mawala ang insecurity disease. Lumayo kayo hinayupak!

Pagdating sa mga larangan, we should be aware that not everyone can have the same length or width that you have. Kung sa category each ay may weak, moderate, and strong, then iyon na.

Hindi iyong maglalamangan pa. Wala pa naman sa state na professional, versatile, or expert sa ganoon e. Sabihan mo na ako na ganito ganyan kung pati yung ngsasalita may mga ebidensya.

Or if they have, puwedeng shut the insecurity? Puksaan na lang oh!

You would never know kung kritisismo ba or back-handed compliment yung binigay.

Kung sarcasm or kaplastikan ang mga sinabi.

At ito tayo, nahihiya kaya tatanggapin na lang.

Pero magkakaroon naman ng after-effect na kung saan magkakaroon si insecurity.

So please, hold yourself. There are just a bunch of haters.

Bashers na walang magawa sa buhay kaya ang boboring nila.

May napulot nga akong aral that insecurity can be so self-defeating, that if often leads to non-life.

Gets mo ba? Kung hindi tsk! Namumuo na siya.

Kung kaya mong tawanan ang mga walang katuturan then go lang.

Ang mga tao kase na ganyan na punong-puno ng insecurity ay mga taong hindi makontento sa buhay.

Kaya ang nangyayari, sa iba nila pinagbubuntungan ang kapangitang mayroon sila at isasana-all sa mga taong walang kaso sa mga ito.

If I were you, do not let insecurities go into you.