Another positive is that his communication style seems to be the same as mine, as well as love language.
How do I know this? From the conversations I've had with him and also the things his friend or family has told me.
He's very clear. He says exactly what's on his mind, and I like that about him, because there's no guesses, he's straight up. I also noticed he's gentler with women than he is with men, which is good cause I want to be respected. He is very warm, almost too warm that it's suspicious, but that could be his personality. Again, other thing that can only be tested.
As for love language, I know from one of his past relationships, that he likes giving gifts. Which is perfect because that is my main love language. Along with words of affirmation. I don't know if he has the words one as well, but I'm sure he does because of how well he expresses himself. He's very open and expressive. And I'm like that too, I'm bad at hiding how I feel.
He's good at lying though. I'm good at lying too and that's bad... but if we both work in our flaws and try our best to stick with Jehovah it would work.
Also I told myself I wasn't gonna date long distance ever again. And we live in the same city so.
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A couple years from now I do see myself with him. Jocelyn tried to set me up with him years ago, but it wasn't our time and Jehovah didn't allow us to sit together. I knew it wasn't right in that moment, because we were both still thinking of other people. And neither of us was mature. I'm still growing up today, and I know he is too. He has things to solve right now... it's just not possible today. But once he's resolved his issues, and once I accomplish my goals, it's a real possibility.
I'm not dreaming of it, but for some reason he hasn't left my mind since 2022 so. It's like a thought that goes for weeks and then comes back, and then it leaves for months and comes back again. So I honestly don't know the future but I do know that if it's Jehovah's will he'll help to make it happen, when the time is right. I'm not worried.
