I don't understand this. "Don't label yourself." Or "just because you have a sexuality doesn't mean you should label yourself."
Well, guess what?
I found out that I was asexual, and I felt complete. I felt like I knew more about myself than I ever knew, and this was the label I wanted to go by. You don't have to label yourself. But it was my decision with this label. I did this for a reason.
You don't have to label yourself. You're still valid and your accepted. You don't have to if you don't want. But if you do, make sure to do lots of rea search before you do so. It can be helpful or detrimental to someone's mental health. Don't feel confined or required to label anything! It's okay to be questioning or or somewhere in between. You're still valid. And we're all in this together ^-^
Think of it like you're in a garden patch. You see all these different fruits, vegetables, and maybe some flowers? You have a label on tomatoes and the squash. You have a label over a blueberry. And a label over a tiger lily. The rest are left alone. And that's perfectly A okay. Okay?
But don't hate people just because they chose to label themselves. It's not your job to tell us who we are and what we should do. We can figure that out for ourselves, thanks. And if you do harass someone for it, I'll gladly come through this screen and kick you in the throat. Have a nice day~
