I don't know... can we stop...treating ace discourse like it's some haha funny cringe compilation or whatever because it destroyed the entire ace and aro communities. There is no solid aspec community on tumblr anymore (which was by far the biggest number of aspec ppl). Exclusionists took our community and smashed it to pieces and they treat it as this stupid joke when they traumatized, gaslit, and abused an entire group of queer people back into the closet. Fuck every single person who doesn't take that seriously.
Aces are literally hurting nobody.
And being questioned hurts okay.
Thanks for coming to my ted talk.