I legit had this conversation with my mom yesterday...My younger brother was being a pest and acting very annoying and wouldn't leave me alone. Also take note that I am not out yet.
Me: I am never having kids
Mom: sure you will! You'll change your mind when you have a husband
Me: nah if I get married we aren't having sex. That's gross. We're going to act like best friends without that part.
Mom: then you just have a best friend
Me: no. That means I'll have a lover, a best friend, a listener, someone I can confide in and trust. You don't kiss your best friend.
Mom: but didn't you say...
Me: you're missing the point. I don't want the SEX part. I don't want the kids. I don't want anything except the relationship between a specific person I chose to live my life with. That's it.
-conversation ends-
And that's pretty much it.