Highest #17 in fanfiction Soul mate relationships come with certain amount of fate and destiny attached to them, but all relationships are not fated. Destiny or soul mate relationships are pre-destined meetings that you have agreed before you entered to this earth. A fated relationship, such as soul mate relationship shapes your life by bringing remarkable experiences that you would not have had, if that person had not entered into your life, or your life path would have not taken the route where you actually destined to be, if you did not have this fated meeting.