crushes part 2

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acting normal?

first things first!

when I was in middle school and i first figure out I have a crush on someone, it is nearly impossible to act normal around them! but now, I have had a couple of crushes this year... and its different. they've all been on my guy friends. I find my self feeling so safe around them and they let me be who I am and act how I want to and they don't judge me for it. if you really like somone, and if they care about you too, they should let you feel comfortable around them. you should never change for someone just because that who they want you to be. if you do change to their standards, they don't really like you, they just like the person they made you to be.

now no matter what, whether you already feel comfortable around your crush or not, you're still gonna get butterflies in you're stomach, your heart is gonna beat out of your chest when you see them, your heart is still gonna skip a beat when they say your name. and that is totally normal, that's half the fun of having a crush!

the other half of the fun is laughing about the stupid shit you do infront of them!

but I realize you just want them to feel the same. you just want them to think your a normal person and not some insane person who escaped the insane asylum and lost their meds.

or maybe you're trying to keep your crush on the down low, and don't want to make it obvious you're totally falling for them, but no matter what when you're with them you do the stupid crap.

a couple of things I do when I'm I'm any of those situations -

take a deep breath

remeber they are a person too no different from me

know that everyone does weird shit

just be myself... on a normal day...

I mean there's really not much you can do... but I wish you luck. if you want more,vote and leave a comment

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