Okay this is just going to be about bullies and how to deal with it. I'm only going to talk about bullies and my experiences. Just letting you know:)
Okay so bullies! EVERYONE , I mean EVERYONE! And yes I'm talking about the "popular people" , I call them "the preps", "the nerds", "the nobody's" the athletes" , I seriously mean everyone! Some have it worse then others but there are always bullies. In middle school, it's an awkward time for EVERYONE! We're going though puberty, and all these crazy changes. But we all change differently , I have gotten taller , like mega tall ! I'm 5'9 taller then all my friends and most boys. I have also gotten muscular because I do tae kwon do and I'm training super hard because I'm on the junior Olympic team. So I have gotten tall and muscular. But people call me fat because I have to wear large cloths and my muscles make me look bigger. But I'm perfectly happy with my self. I mean there are always ways I can improve myself but I like my self the way I am, and if people make fun of you because of how you look, ignore them. I know it seems like you have heard it over a million times! But really it's the most affective thing! They get so annoyed when you do nothing. They want a reaction from you. They want to see you tear up, they want to see you get hurt and feel horrible about yourself. Don't fall for it! I had red hair in 7th and most of 8th grade, I just recently died it back to brown because I was tired of the red, but people would call me an orangutan.(look it up). And oh my goodness, you have no idea how much I wanted to cry and just punch every single one of them in the face! It's just rude! And I hated it so much! But I just sat there smiled and waved and laughed along. They saw it wasn't effecting me so they stopped. But I still get called an orangutan every now and then, but I just ignore it. I seriously don't find why I should waste my time wasting my time with those peasants! But sometimes bullies can get physical. And I have gotten beaten up before, sadly it was before I knew tae kwon do , so I didn't know what to do except give them a dead arm so they would let go of me and I could run. But if you do get into a physical fight, don't start it! Let the other person hit you first, I know that seems stupid, but unless you want to get expelled, don't start a fight. This way you can say you where just defending yourself. But try to stop the bulling before it gets to that point. Now I know someone asked me about comebacks. So I'm going to give you some.
If some one says something such as calls you fat/ugly/"a cuss word"/ or anything try one of these
- funny. i thought the sαme thing αbout you .
- but your mom loves me for thαt .
- thαt's not whαt your mom sαid lαst nite .
- there you go, tαlking to yourself αgαin .
- hey, who let you out of your cαge ?
- αwwh, you notcied ? dumb***
- looks like me & you will get αlong nicely then .
- is there α mirror behind me ?
- NO -nαme of the person who cαlled you fαt/ugly- I WILL NOT TAKE OFF MY PANTS .
- who's eyes αre you using to look αt me ? better tell 'em they need glαsses .
- well, you look like α cross between me & ur mom .
- you know why i'm so fαt ? cuz everytime i'm done screwing your boy/girlfriend he/she mαke me α sαndwich .
- look who's tαlking jαck***
- yeαh, you know whαt ? go pick on someone your own size - there's α bus in the pαrking lot .
- tαkes one to know one .
- so's your fαce/mom
These are just some funny comebacks, and having a comeback usually get the bully thrown off guard. I'm not saying its always the best thing to do but if your gonna do it, make it funny and show that peasant your not afraid of them!
I know it's not much, but I hope it helped! If you want more help, personal stories, or really any thing about what you want help with let me know! I really do appreciate comments for suggestions and votes to let me know that this is actually helping you! Bye my little warriors:) smile one and be kind to one other.
Find joy in the ordinary:)
